me an my girlfriend just broke up we still live together and are friendly but that is it, im sleeping on the couch and she is sleeping in the bedroom the break up was mutual at the time but i really miss her.we were talking today in the bedroom and everything was good and then she just asked me to leave.does this make sense to anyone.. please help
2007-02-18
11:12:37
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she did not ask me to leave the flat its mine. she asked me to go out to the sitting room. by the way we have been living torether for 3 years.
2007-02-18
11:47:08 ·
update #1
I think you two seriously need your own space for at least a couple of days. You'll never think straight under the same roof.
She may be suffering with depression, which could make her act in haste.
Make sure she knows that you still love her, then let her make up her own mind. You'll never convince someone to love you, but you can try to make their decision easier.
Hang in there. I bet you can resolve it x
2007-02-18 11:16:59
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answered by Claudia W 2
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Like you said, everything is friendly and good, but there is still the reason you both mutually agreed to break the relationship off? That would be what she may have suddenly been reminded of per your conversation in the bedroom. I can't see this situation working out. As you said, you both agreed to the breakup, why would she think anything was different per one conversation? You will continually think there is a possibility of reconciliation if things go well between you. It just isn't healthy in my view. Decisions need to be made for other living arrangements.
2007-02-18 19:24:12
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answered by cgirl97 4
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perhaps she felt uncomfortable for her and that something may begin between you both at that time that she needed her space. It sounds as if she is quite adamant that it is over between you both and it is going to be very hard for you both to carry on living in the same flat together as only friends (espec if she meets a new man and wants to bring him back to the flat) perhaps it better that one of you makes a clean break and one moves out otherwise there could be a lot of hurt and jealously
Its time to move on good luck
2007-02-18 21:06:38
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe she just finds it too hard to continue living with you and being friendly with you after you've broken up?
It's probably good for you that she asked you to move out, because its not good for a recently broken up couple to be seeing each other so much and living together.
You need to move on.
2007-02-18 19:16:55
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answered by Tanya 2
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If you broke up it means there is no more you&her. To make sure of that you should move out. If you stay living together you will always think maybe she wants me back - but the truth is: if she wanted, she would ring you or text you. I think it is time for you to pack your bags... Or for her - I dont know whose flat it is...
2007-02-18 19:18:35
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answered by vikingsrose 3
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you dont switch off your emotions just like that, your head tells you the right thing to do is to break up but the heart takes a little longer to catch up. i suspect she asked you to leave before things happened. i think that if it is truly over one of you has to move out or it will torture at least one of you to live together anymore. x
2007-02-18 19:24:18
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answered by Buffy 4
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Sounds like she is okay with the break up and just wants to stay friends. Sorry!
2007-02-18 19:16:02
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answered by michellecdnd 3
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yep,she want rid of ya.
get over it and be a man.
do not try and change her mind or she will go even further away.
if you really want her back,don't show it.
slippery slope,shes winning this and knows it.
keep laughing and getting on with life,if she misses you then shell come round.
2007-02-18 19:18:31
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answered by fozzy01 3
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she wants you to leavebecause the relationship can not truely be over until one of you leave. if you want her back than you need to let her know you true feelings before it is too late
2007-02-18 19:18:07
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answered by Anonymous
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she probably doesnt want to look at you becuase it hurts to much but she is trying to move on and you should too
2007-02-18 19:16:28
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answered by March !2th 20!2 2
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