okay i need to know how you girls would like to be approached by a guy so you don't think he is weird or trying to hard. What is the ideal approach for you girls. with my gf she said i looked cute and funny because i tried so hard..the thing is i didnt think i was cute or funny i was scared as hell. what would yu like to have a guy say to you that will make you think all right he's an all right guy.
2007-02-18 11:07:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just walk up to her and say hi! Give a big smile....girls practically melt when guys smile (that is if they like them and if ur cute which im sure u r) just give her a polite smile and NEVER IGNORE HER....u can hang out with other friends but always make some time for her!
2007-02-18 11:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man once leaned forward and whispered in my ear that I was stunning. I thought I might have fallen in love with him instantly. When you are interested in a woman, simply compliment her about something. If you are attracted to her, it shouldnt be hard to come up with something to compliment her about. Pull out your dictionary and thesaurus and find origional worlds(not just the generic beautiful) and compliment her. This way, you know you will get a responce. I have never known a woman to hear a man call her stunning or elegant and then turn around and tell him to drop dead. So your pride and shyness should be safe. You can usually tell what kind of woman she is and if she is attracted to you by her response. If she simply says thanks, you should move on. If she says " I know" , then move on quickly. But if she turns her eyes away from you a moment and her skin pinkens, and she says thank you and doesnt seem to want to walk away, then you have a woman who is not into herself, and more than likely has interest in you. From this point on, it depends on your situation, how often you see her, where you are, and how many others are around. There is more from here, feel free to email me on some other ideas.
2007-02-18 11:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ideal approach is a natural one. Being yourself is key when trying to get a woman's attention. Icebreakers can be used as well.(a joke or a compliment) It depends on the guy but a guy should never approach a woman using prerehearsed dialogue. That's so lame! lol
2007-02-18 11:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Danie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest...the best pick up a guy did for me was saying this....He said, hey you, yes you (and pointed) and then said, Here are some things that I would never tell you for fear of being rejected...I would never tell you I think you're beautiful, or that you look hot in that shirt. I would never tell you that your smile makes me melt and your eyes are sexy as hell. I would never tell you that all night I've tried to make eye contact and flirt but you didn't pay me any attention, I would never tell you that I am scared as hell to come over here and talk to you....then he goes, hey, my name is Mike, and I'm so glad you can't read my mind cause there are things I would never want you to know.....what was your name by the way?.......I was ready to marry him....the delivery is everything though....so if you chose this one, practice the delivery....I could tell he was nervous when he approached. I was intrigued at the thought of him telling me these things by saying what he would never tell me...and it sounded genuine.....
Just in you asking the Q you sound cool, Im sure you'll do fine. I feel for you men, you guys have all the pressure put on you when it comes to dating, the asking, the rejection, all of it. I don't envy men, but I thank you for getting over your fears and asking us out anyway.....
Hey, you could use this...you could say, hey, I put a question out on yahoo to ask women what the best way to approach a woman is.....se that as a conversation opener...I would find that intriguing....and a good ice breaker......not sure it would work on anyone....I have a lot of guy friends and they tell me I tend to be easy on men approaching me, probably because they tell me all their thoughts and feelings on asking women out,.
Best of luck...you'll do just fine!
2007-02-18 11:19:24 · answer #4 · answered by no_me_no_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a joke immediately. Nothing corny, use your better judgement. And don't make it some random one-liner, it needs to have something to do with what's going on. Don't target another person in the area (especially if you're at a party) because she might know them. Don't bother with compliments right out of the chute, most girls don't know how to take them and it makes them uncomfortable and makes you seem creepy.
2007-02-18 11:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like a guy to approach me with a rose and just say, i have been watching u for a while and u look amazing. I was warnering if u wanna go out with me.
2007-02-18 11:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that this answer would be different for every chick because everyone isnt the same. It also would depend on if you were that chicks type. So I dont think you should take one girls advice on this because they might be total opposite from you. The most important and GOLDEN RULE is to be yourself and not try to be anyone else because you want her to like you, for you and not who you are pretending to be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Good luck with finding the right answer!!
2007-02-18 11:16:38 · answer #7 · answered by krizdyz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would agree guys try too hard to inpress a girl. just start off by general convo. dont ask about how our day been or if we got a man. that is doomed for failure. No we dont want a drink either. just hi how you doing my name is and yours your from around the area maybe would you like to dance and if all goes well she will talk about liking you and you will know if she digging you or not
2007-02-18 11:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is kinda cute if the guy is shy and is nervous to me that means he really like you but
when a guy approaches me he should say something like "hi i'm (his name )what's your name " that way he keeps it simple and makes me feel more confident that he likes me because he had the courage to come up to me like you said you were scared as hell but you still talked to her that is what i like in a guy to think he is an all right guy
2007-02-18 11:17:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋