I'm not physically attracted to the person I love, even though the person if super hot, does that mean I?

Question

Don't really love that person? Because I know I do, and I think physical attraction is not important in a relationship!! What do you think, serious answers only please, thanks!

Answer 1

Tough one.

Physical attraction can definitely take a very very big back seat in a relationship. In fact I'm 21, and up until a month ago I've never ever felt physical attraction for anyone. (And I'm married, with a baby.)

Now, the man I'm actually in love with though (not my husband. Boo hoo) has changed that about me. I've never so much as been in the same room with him yet, which is a testament to the fact that our relationship isn't based on physical attraction in any way. But boy is it a bonus.

So. I definitely think it's possible to fall/be in love without the physical. But I also think it's impossible not to be attracted to someone you love. Or maybe I'm just incredibly lucky to have found THE ABSOLUTE HOTTEST PIECE OF HOTNESS ON THE PLANET.

Answer 2

Physical attraction does play a major role in everyone's life, but physical attraction doesn't guarantee success compared to inner attraction... The reason you approach a girl is because of her apperance. She might look skinny, average ot fat, and that is the reason you approach her at the first place. So physical attraction plays a major role.

Confidence: If you approach a physicially unattractive girl, then that means you are seeking eternal love, or probably want to abuse her. Of course physically attractive girls, also boys, catch the yes 99% of the time, while a physically unattractive girl may catch an eye at only 1%.... But, physically unattractive girls usually get an everlasting marriage with her partner than those who are physically attractive... At the end of the valuation it is a 50/50% thing. None wins the bottle.

Answer 3

There's always a physical attraction as otherwise we'd all b single, you have to like what your dating. The main attraction for me is the inner qualities, all the beauty comes from within & beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you seriously love this person then you obviously see all their inner qualities shining through like nothing else you've ever seen before. go with it & be true to yourself & them.

Answer 4

love is more beneficial than actual appeal, at the same time as appeal is what can draw someone to someone it isn't a foundation for love or emotions, love comes from appreciating the completed equipment of someone for who they are interior and out, and also you're basically mature sufficient to make certain previous her visual attraction to all the different characteristics that you delight in about her...

Answer 5

You do care for her alot that could just mean you are building a friendship. Some people don't develop physical attraction until later on. I wouldn't worry unless there is a complaint.

Answer 6

Of course you love them! Love doesn't discriminate. Love knows we are far more than just physical beings.
I am curious, though, about the length of time you've been involved, and what it was that DID attract you to begin with.

Answer 7

i have had alot of past boyfreinds who i have not ben attracted 2.but,that dousent mean i dont still love them 4 who the are.i have found out from personal exsprince that just because ur not phisicaly attracted 2 that person dousent mean u can live without them that easy.i would have 2 say that this is personal but i hoped i have been able 2 help from alittle bit of my pastjust remember that u love this person
-just trying 2 help!!

Answer 8

its good that you look for personalitly, but i think that you should be physically attracted to that person. but if it doesnt bother you whatsoever that your not physically attracted to that person, then i guess it doesnt really matter.
best of luck <3