OK i was just wondering what do u guys look for in girls? What is the most important thing for u in a girl that u like? Is it just appearences or is it more?
2007-02-18 11:05:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so much more than appearance..appearance plays a role but not as much as smiling, her eyes, her personality is the biggest thing for me. i like a girl who is driven and knows wha she wants. i want one that wants to be successful and has a sense of humor. persoanlit is the biggest thing for me. thank god i found a gf like that.
2007-02-18 11:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's the appearances first...without it, we'd just see you as another every-day average person. The way you act in general public/towards friends would come next.
If you're an approachable person, that's what will get the guys. Don't be a complete "wise-guy" when they try to talk to you or laugh at them/make fun of them with a definite negative feeling. It will definitely scare them away and reconsider. Be yourself, the guys will notice you and your personality and decide from there.
2007-02-18 19:10:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well appearance plays a big roll, I mean I wouldnt just start talking to some girl if I didnt find her attractive, after that personality all the way )
2007-02-18 19:09:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well having feelings for her is the biggest obviously. But the biggest thing that I like for in a girl is having personallities that mesh. If she laughs at the same things I do, if we get along well, that sorta thing. And appearance is nice but it's not what I base how I feel for her on.
2007-02-18 19:11:38 · answer #4 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is that she likes the guy back.
2007-02-18 19:07:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important for a girl to be herself. While a girl might turn a guy in her direction by her looks, her dress or her gestures, your true personality will ensure a long lasting relationship.
Be yourself, but also be true to yourself. That way, you will ensure that both of you are happy.
2007-02-18 19:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by paulblackman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different guys will give your different answers to this. This is no one specific type for all men. What I look for is uniqueness. Something that makes you stand out from everybody else. This can be your physical appearance or your intellect.
2007-02-18 19:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by Michael D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way more.
Sense of humor is important.
But the best thing is just how a girl makes me feel. She has to be able to just, make me happy when I'm around her. She has to make me consider the world in new ways: to make me think.
Cuteness is all relative. A girl can look completely different to me from one day to another: if I just learn something new about her.
2007-02-18 19:10:22 · answer #8 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
----appearences are always the first attraction----then you need to find out the most important thing about her----is she for real.
2007-02-18 19:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks is first. but every giy ideal of good looking is difernt. you could meat a hot chick but then talk to her and see that u are nothong alike. so to answer. i say looks draw us to u but pursonalty is the desiding factor
2007-02-18 20:33:07 · answer #10 · answered by farm_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋