well my ex asked me out again after a year. he dumped me big time the last time i went out with him. he dumped me after only 6 days!and he didnt do it himself.so he asked me out again this year. i sayed no 6 times beore he finaly stopped asking me. for valetines he gave me a ring and asked me again. he sayed hes changed, and i half beleive half not. it HAS been a year, and im kinda sad because nobody elce wants me that way, and all my friends have bf's or gf's! no sympathy wanted...what should i do?
2007-02-18 11:01:22 · 12 answers · asked by Jesi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're looking to be dumped in 6 days again, you should go for it.
2007-02-18 11:05:27 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... I wouldn't be upset just because your friends have boyfriends or girlfriends, being alone is fine, as long as you are fine with it.
Secondly, give him a chance. People change. I know lots of people that change all the time. Maybe he realized that he wants to be with you, and that he made a big mistake before.
Either way, it's up to you, and you make your own dicisions, but being that you are asking for advice. I say go for it. What do you have to lose? I mean, if, God forbid, he turns out to be an a$$ hole.. then you know better if he tries to come crawling back again.
Good Luck!!
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2007-02-18 14:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, he's "changed" says who? he probably just wants a girlfriend too. you don't need a boyfriend. Dumped you after six days, stay away from him. You can always be friends. If he has changed, you'll notice it if you become friends. Good luck with that.
2007-02-18 12:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just gonna break your heart again you know . He hasn't changed so don't fall for it. No body else wants you cause you are thinking that way. Just cause all your friends are dating doesn't mean u have to date someone to be happy with yourself.
Be happy first with who you are and then the guys will just be lining up to date you.
2007-02-18 11:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey all i can say is this if he did it once he well do it again thats what a guy did to me they all say they changede put it well only take u a week before u see the true him again. but dont worry your dream man well come soon.
2007-02-18 11:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by young mixed mami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the same situation... i would take him back over and over .. and then one day i just put my foot down.. i mean i dont know what you had to deal with but i had crazy drama with my x. i think it all depends on how far he has pushed you and how much damage has been done
2007-02-18 11:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by em k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no and to leave u alone tht u dont like him tht way anymore. if he still persists tell tht u wanna be just frds and see if he has changed.if he has move on to the nxt level if he has nt DUMP him like he did to u
2007-02-18 11:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Mev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it. There is no future in this relationship. He will dump you again -- and again -- and again. Say good bye.
2007-02-18 11:06:52 · answer #8 · answered by Mr Wisdom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may say that he's changed but he really hasn't. Tell him no! Tell him that he had his chance twice and he blew it.
2007-02-18 11:04:26 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a second chance.
2007-02-18 11:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋