2007-02-18 10:53:39 · 20 answers · asked by Soccer Junkie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him!
If you think you two have some good connections and you like him, then go for it.
I asked out this amazing, super sweet guy once. I was freaking nrevous and scared but I wenr for it. Turns out it was the best idea ever and he and I have been dating for 9 months. He said he didn't ask me out first because he was too scared and thought I was "out of his league".
So go ahead and ask him! The worst thing that can happen is him saying no, which isn't even that bad.
Good luck! And make sure you're teeth are perfect and you smell nice. Yay!!
2007-02-18 10:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by samantha 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off, people are in charge of their own lives and happiness. If you don't take control of your own destiny, who will? We are making history every second we are alive. We are a part of it. Through that global history...each one of us individuals has our own personal history we are living as well. If your life was a book, how would you want it read? Would you want someone to read about how you kept trying to passively send out these signals to a guy in hopes he would magically understand that you wanted to be asked out?
OR would you rather that somebody reading your story got to pick up on how you took charge of your own life like an assertive 21st century woman...that even if the guy rejected you...that you still had the guts to go for the glory? What would make for a better story in a book? What would make for a better LIFE?
Think about it.
Would you rather roll the dice and hope that a guy picks up on your signals or would you rather give fate a nudge? Keep in mind...men and women can be pretty wrapped up in their own little worlds and don't even NOTICE signals sometimes because they are focussed on other stuff.
How much do you care about this guy? Are you going to just let him go or leave it all on his shoulders? How much would it bug you 10 years down the road if you looked back on this and saw that you wimped out?
2007-02-18 19:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Evan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can ask him out - many guys are flattered when she does the asking. The ones that aren't flattered are more of the type that wants to be in control. How he reacts to being asked out will give a good indication of what he's like.
2007-02-18 19:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by huskie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? I asked my husband out, made the first move in the bedroom, and proposed to him. Why wait for someone else to make moves and schedule your life around them? Stupid way to waste your time and your life. At least if they say no, you know right away they aren't interested and you can get out there and find someone who is!
2007-02-18 18:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is alright to ask out a guy. I ask all of the guys I went out with out. That is just old fashion stuff.
2007-02-18 20:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Crazyness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to ask a guy out.Some guys might be interested in you but to scared to ask or not sure if you are interested.Some guys wait for the girl to ask.
2007-02-18 18:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by robbob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really kinda depends on what kinda guy he is.... if hes old fashioned kinda, you may not want to ask him out because its' not how things are done', but most guys, at least that i know, would love a girl who was brave enough and liked them enough to go 'against the flow' and ask them out instead of the other way around
2007-02-18 18:58:03 · answer #7 · answered by *chicka_chicka_boom_boom* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the rules have gotten lost by now ,it is politically correct to ask people out irrespective of gender
the girl can as the boy
the girl can ask the girl
or the boy can ask the boy or the girl
you see life has become complicated
and the rules dont work anymore
2007-02-18 18:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure is fine to ask a guy out. Why? You can take the pressure off of him and hey it is the 21st century you know...
2007-02-18 18:56:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Some might really appreciate that, or others might be a little bothered by it. Go for it and see what happens I guess.
2007-02-18 19:04:44 · answer #10 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋