I love my boyfriend with all of my heart - but he doesnt satisfy me sexually.
I have spoken to him about what I want in that department, but he isnt willing to even try doing what I would like to try.
I mean its nothing too strange - just a little backdoor action... Most men would jump at the chance.
How can I get him to understand that I REALLY want to do it and that it isnt disgusting...
Please help me and DONT judge me for it.
2007-02-18 10:50:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok more info
He doesnt drink
He's 40 years old and set in his ways
He thinks it's gross cause poo come out of there
He is worried he will then be GAY beacuse he likes pumping the poop shoot...
2007-02-18 10:59:43 · update #1
Buy a vibrator.
2007-02-18 10:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a product called liquid X it's a clit stimulator. It will take a lil planning because u have to put it on 5- 10 mins before any sort of playing down there but it should do the trick.
2016-03-29 01:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok why whould i jugde? spice things up and if that doesnt work try this... (i did this with my boy friend and were still going strong) i told him i wasnt getting enough out of bed so we have an agreement every saturday i go to this guys house that we know (from my bf work) and we have sex and he is amazing in bed but my boyfriend and i agreed that its not like me and this guy love each other and i still have sex with him but its really only for his pleaser not mine. trust me its great and if your boyfriend doesnt like the idea tell him its ether that or you have to take sex classes and oh by the way that is an option some docters specalize in giving the best orgasam but remember always get your boyfriend you and your "sex buddy" tested for std
2007-02-18 10:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have a phobia about it or something. I and most any other guy would gladly jump on that. You are going to have to work on him with that or get it somewhere else.
2007-02-18 10:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes "two to tango" deary and if he cant bring himself around to please you then he is immature and foolish....I do not judge anyone....keep the explicit details between you and him only, if he still doesnt or cant perform then its time to let go...there are more "fish" in the sea that would gladly accomodate you !!!!
2007-02-18 10:58:32 · answer #5 · answered by jc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a few drinks first...that will loosen him up...and use a condom ..that way he might be so "grossed out" since he is protected. You might try doing something that HE wants to get him to give in, that way he would "owe u one" good luck
2007-02-18 10:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by NYEVE43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could always drop by later, I should be home after 6.
2007-02-18 10:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Condoms don't work well in that region, they break, and he gets hepatitis-you know what's in there don't you?? I have known people who did this and they said there is no big deal.
2007-02-18 10:57:17 · answer #8 · answered by dtwladyhawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol backdoor action....just say u want to do it in a really sexy voice..
2007-02-18 10:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by Nicholas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell YAH!!!!!!!! back door action is the BOMB@!@!
anyway, your man sounds like a little biotch, you need to find yourself a REAL man!
2007-02-18 10:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by holyitsacar 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my advice to you would be try new things like get him to handcuff you then blind fold you try that it may work
2007-02-18 11:19:58 · answer #11 · answered by larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋