I like this guy and he likes me, pretty generic situation,
but i just got out of a pretty intense relationship and i got hurt and the current boy and i kind of hit if off after that. we're basically together now, but without a title.
however, this sometimes isn't what i want. the more i think about it the more i just want to be single and have fun and not have to worry about a boyfriend. the thing that really is a clincher, is that whenever we're together i can't even understand why we're not together because i love being with him.
but the novelty of a new relationship is starting to wear off.
so i'm wondering if i should stop this now.
or keep it going and see where it ends.
this is a really confusing post.
so to clear it up.
i like him, he likes me: where do i go from here with under these circumstances..
2007-02-18 10:50:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes in life we only get one shot to do something, so you have to think about it from that perspective. The worst case that could happen is you break up and nothing happens, sure it might be a heart ace but if its your only shot and you miss it, you might not live it down or find another guy thats right for you again.
2007-02-18 10:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sense you feel some kind of pressure to label this relationship? You said you did not want to 'worry about a boyfriend'.......a boyfriend shouldn't be a worry. Enjoy the relationship as is as long as your friend understands you don't want any committment now. If he is a friend indeed, he will understand your wanting to do things on your own terms. This may be a good time to be on your own--you do not need to have a boyfriend at all unless you choose to do so. Just be sure to be upfront to your friend since he sounds like a great guy. Simply tell him you feel a need to be on your own to make sure you don't take your bad experience/sadness from previous boyfriend out on him and others...and you are not ready. It isn't him you are rejecting...so he knows you think he is great. Honesty, is the way to go. It is your life.
2007-02-18 19:14:49 · answer #2 · answered by cgirl97 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After "getting out of a pretty intesne relationship and got hurt," I think it'd be best for you to back off and give yourself some free time to yourself. Jumping from that scenario into a new relationship will not go well; if you two both truly like each other and are really good friends, tell him about what happened with your previous relationship and that you're not quite ready. If he really does like you and respects you, he'd understand and back off for a bit.
2007-02-18 18:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must go with your first intuition if you ask yourself do I want a relationship and the answer is no. It doesnt matter how much you like the guy it will end badly.
Try taking 2 weeks with out speaking to him or seeing him. See how it goes.
2007-02-18 18:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by preschoolmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a situation like this. If you love being together, be together. If you get closer, things will flow naturally. Just relax, and things will flow.
2007-02-18 18:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Nate R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be single date lots of guys cause having someone in your life will just drag you down. You need to wait til you are thirty to get serious unless mr. perfect comes along. Stay single and enjoy life.
2007-02-18 18:54:28 · answer #6 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋