He won't kiss me (Only on the hand) and he has to pay for everything. What can I do?
2007-02-18 10:49:58 · 27 answers · asked by argetdraco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
----next time your with him---tell him that your paying for everything tonight----if that doesn;t work---you can say you tried------just tell him how you feel sweetheart---------
2007-02-18 10:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is that such an awful thing? There are too many guys out there that are not gentleman at all. If you could see how some guys treat girls you wuld realize your lucky to have him. Maybe he's not what your used too, thats because of th decreases population of gentlemen like himself. Tell him about the wole paying and kissing thing but never ask a guy to stop being a gentleman that is flat out rude when he is trying to be a kind person to you. best of luck xx sorry if any of my advice came out harsh :]
2007-02-18 18:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by italianonikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to grow up and realize you have a great thing! There are not many true gentleman these days. You have a treasure! If you can't appreciate it, try dating some asshole that won't treat you like you should be treated. I bet you'll want him back. As far as the paying thing: Ask if you can pay every now and then. Explain that you appreciate what he does, but that you'd like to do something for HIM too. And if he isn't ready for anything physical (kissing etc.) then you can't push him in that area. He sounds like a treasure to behold...But it is so like us females to throw away the good ones and go for the dirtbags! No risk of falling in love and breaking our hearts that way...
2007-02-18 18:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG YOU COULD STOP COMPLAINING!!!! Enjoy it while it lasts! There are so few of them out there. If you want a bad boy then set your gentleman aside LOL There are MANY women who would love to be treated like a lady instead of a piece of meat. He is probably just trying to build up the anticipation and the nerve for that first kiss.
2007-02-18 19:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A guy like that is very difficult to find - enjoy it and accept it. I am not sure how he would react if you were to come onto him in a big way so be careful. Have a chat with him and ask him why he does what he does, you may find that he wants to make a good impression and wants things to last a long time. When is his birthday? Buy him something really special and tell him why you love him.
2007-02-18 18:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just accept it. It's kinda hard to find a boyfriend like yours. He believes that he shouldn't rush into anything. I think that he's really sweet. I know you don't want a ( Thug) or a ( Drug dealer) so accept what you have. The man you got are the men ladies dream about. They're the men that propose to you in a very romantic place by a candle light dinner or on the beach when sunset hits. Don't change him, love the way he is. At least he's not a woman beater! I hope you accept my thinking. Please don't change him.
2007-02-18 18:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
treasure it! you might never see it again!
he might be scared.. so give him time... and if he's moving too slow, let him know. remember, the best part of a boyfriend is the FRIEND... someone you can talk to and trust... so maybe keeping it slow isn't such a bad thing.
and about him paying for everything... if you're uncomfortable with it, tell him you'd like to pay for the two of you once in a while!
2007-02-18 18:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by blinker 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are dang lucky to have a gentlemanly boyfriend. Talk to him about that stuff. Tell him in a sweet voice that you REALLY wouldn't mind him kissing you. And what's so wrong with him insisting on paying for everything? ;)
2007-02-18 18:58:38 · answer #8 · answered by iluvpuppies_48 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you can tell him how you really feel in a kind and loving way without making him feel too bad about himself. And make it sound like you really enjoy his gestures but your starting to feel to guilty about the paying situation and about the kissing on the hand well i dont have to tell you what to do.lol
2007-02-18 18:54:37 · answer #9 · answered by Becca O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't stop a guy being like that as there are not many of us gentlemen around(i'm like that myself) & not many women find a true gentleman like us, we're a very rare breed these days, enjoy it to the max hun.
2007-02-18 18:54:35 · answer #10 · answered by HOT SINGLE BACHELOR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're gonna have to just talk with him about it. If he wants to pay for everything let him. I pay for everything when I'm on a date, that's what a man is supposed to do. As far as him not kissing you, you need to talk to him about it.
2007-02-18 18:53:51 · answer #11 · answered by Kyle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋