My boyfriend currently lives 3000 miles away, and he will be moving here soon (a few months). Everyday I miss him more and more and love him more and more... what do I do to make the time go by faster or easier? It seems to get more and more depressing and frustrating everytime we talk. I just love him so much and want him to be here! Traveling there or having him come here is not an option. Only serious answers-cheating is out of the question!!!!!
2007-02-18 10:47:52 · 12 answers · asked by smurfette 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, first off, I find that the best thing is sport activity. In a similar situation, I went really heavy into martial arts, but I suppose any physical action, that requires you to concentrate will do. Other hard tasks may be sufficient...
Oh, and also... agree with your bf to do several nice things every day for each other... text msg, e-mail etc. State the obvious again and again. "I love you still", "thinking about you always". Small things like that along the day, will make the other person seem more aware and close. although several thousand kilometers away.
You always wonder if the other person is thinking about you. If he might be flirting with someone etc etc. "Doing my homework and thinking how much I love you"... or whatever you like, can make the day for your bf. He should be aware that same goes for you...
Make it into a habit to be positive. State you longings in a positive way... dont say: I feel like dying because I miss you so much. Say instead: I love you and I look sooo forward till Ill be seing you agian... etc etc.
That goes for messages as well as calls. Be positive.
Longing for someone is hard, but CAN be constructive with a little effort...
Oh, and also - give yourself credits for living through this. Two months is not unbearable. BUT IT IS ALOT.
2007-02-18 11:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by the_02r 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, change your attitude. This count down time is when you should be feeling more and more excited.....not more and more depressed.
Use this time to work on you. Exercise, eat right and work on yourself so that when he sees you again he will be surprised that you are "hotter than ever " :o)
Send cards and pictures for no reason. Sending his favorite candy or snacks with a cute sexy note always works too. Send him a Victoria's Secret catalog and ask him what he wants to see you in when he moves :o) These are just a few ideas but I am sure that you get the picture.
I have been there so I know that it can be hard. If you work on yourself and change your attitude, the time will go by easier for both of you. Best wishes.
2007-02-18 11:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie246 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well I have been coping with the same thing for 2 years now and have another 3 to go and what I do is write him letters, hang out with friends, go shopping etc. and so on but the main thing here is to keep your mind on other things besides him, otherwise it's going to seem like forever. There's nothing that you can do to make it easier just be patient. Try to get out though don't revolve your life around sitting around and waiting for him to return or call because it will drive you crazy. Just take one day at a time but you need to keep busy otherwise it will never get and easier.
Well good luck.
2007-02-18 10:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start making lists of all of the things you want to do with your boyfriend once he moves here. Has he found an apartment where you live yet? Maybe help him with his apartment search online. Also try doing some of the things you enjoy-it'll help to take your mind off of the fact that he isn't there-yet.
2007-02-18 10:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by True Hija De Oshun! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go get a book The Joy Of Sex,[old book] or something like it.Read up on some new things to try with him.This is one of those books that you share with him. Plan out a little private party for him
2007-02-18 11:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Goodfellar 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Doing what you likes takes things off your mind and allows countless hours to go by quicker.
2007-02-18 10:51:57 · answer #6 · answered by Becca O 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Draw a hot bubble bath, light some scented candles, put on some sexy music, and relive those intimate moments with him in your mind.
2007-02-18 11:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy something with no payments for six months. The time will go by like nothing.
2007-02-18 10:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by Karnak 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the only...and only way that makes time to even seem to go faster(in actuall sense time can not go any faster or slower) just keep yourself busy,busy ,busy
2007-02-18 10:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by robert o 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've waited this long, surely you can wait a few months more. He's moving there to be with you, you'll see him every day!
2007-02-18 10:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋