I am in college and I have met the most wonderful guy in the past week. We get along so well and he just keeps amazing me day after day. Their is one problem he has a girlfriend back at home. He treats me just like I am his girl, he says that no one other then his girlfriend now has ever made him feel like this. I want to be with him, but I continue to tell him that we can't be together cause he has a girl. Should I give in and just be with him or should I continue to make him wait and see if he breaks up with his girl for me? and if he does leave his girlfriend for me should I go with him or be cautious about everything?
2007-02-18 10:46:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is playing games with you. As soon as spring break comes up, he will be back with his girl.... think of summer break, winter break etc... all holidays when he's home with her.
I am sure he's nice and sweet, and I am more sure that he got you feeling special, but remember that you were special all along and you didn't need him to make you feel that way. It was a matter of time before someone will come along and make you feel "loved".
Please, please, date someone else, and spend less time with him. He's looking for a sex partner while he's on campus. You know, make time fly faster.
There are too many single guys on campus all across America, so please don't do this to yourself because soon enough, it will be a problem and your studies will suffer.
Good luck and say no to what feels "good" and go with the honest, openess, and one on one thing.
2007-02-18 10:53:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would be cautious. First of all you know he has his g/f back home. Has he even mentioned breaking it off with her? Does he go home to see her? Is he still calling her? Sounds like he is having one at home for there and now has you at college.
Just be friends and let time tell you. If it is meant to be, you'll know. Frankly, I don't like what he said about "other than my g/f has one made him feel like this".......is that a compliment??? If he was in love with you he would be saying "you have made me feel like never before".....your questioning this shows you don't trust this situation. Date others and make your college time a good one......you'll find one that will make you special and only his.
2007-02-18 18:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsygrl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a player, leave him. If he love you, he should have left his girlfriend long time ago. He not worth your time waiting for him to leave his girlfriend. If he ever decide to leave his girl, and make you his girl. You will never know if he's not going to cheap behind your back. That would only hurt you in the end.
2007-02-18 18:56:33 · answer #3 · answered by planatnstar 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely watch out. He may act like he really cares about you now, but everytime he gets a chance to get back home he will forget about you and act like you don't exsist. His thoughts will be solely on this other girl. Find another guy who will treat you right and doesn't care about anyone else like that.
2007-02-18 18:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Zen.Frank. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋