ok im the new girl and i kinda lonely at lunch till one day some really hot guy starts sitting with me and showing me around school and we where haveing homecomeing dance that friday and he asked me if i want to go with him and i had rally grown to like him so i said yes and oddy oddy yadda we started dateing then one day this really popular girl apprently liked my boyfriend and wanted him so she started to take him away from me and by this time i ha made two other friends (girls) and they had said my boyfriend liked her a little so i thought a little crush wont kill but now i am kinda scared bease he denying the fact that he likes her even though he tells my friends he does and i was told by a rumor he was gonna dump me for her.....waht should i do i am so scared (i in the 6th grade)
2007-02-18 10:46:34 · 17 answers · asked by jessica 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and i love him a lot i was gonna dump him but i dont have the guts because he really shows and cares about me...
2007-02-18 10:52:40 · update #1
Can you believe that I got a headache from reading your question?
It's not that you got a bad question. It's a good question, but you have too much run on sentences..........that it made me dizzy.
Can you re-write it please, and re-post it?
2007-02-18 10:49:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The last thing you need to be worried abbout is a boyfriend. Your not even old enough to know what kind of guy is right for you. That takes time. I would recomend you concentrate more on school. I'm not saying exclude boys from your life but certainly don't try to commit to one this early in life. Save your love and your body for a real man. How do you know hes a real man? He knows what NO means and respects you enough to only have to hear it once. He ask your parents (preferably you dad) permision to take you out. He has to have good character. Let me also make sure your clear on character. Say a couple gets married and a year later the grooms mother dies. In a mad ift of rage he puts his hand threw a wall in the house. Is this bad choice or bad character? If he has never done it before it's probably a bad choice in a bad time. On the other hand if every time your boyfriend gets angry he trys to break things (including you) its a good indication this is how he operates, reflecting very poor character. Why would you consider spending a significant part of your life with a guy whom you dont even know if he can take care of his self. Yea its easy to live at mommy and daddys house but the only way to know your man will pay the mortgage on time is to see him do it. And not just once. If your require some track record of success you will be better off for it. Hearsay and rumors are not concrete fact. but if you go talk to him in a polite non-accusatory manor you will get concrete... then you just have to see if he tells the truth.... But all this advise is for your future, right now you need to study so those times you dont have a man you can support yourself.
2007-02-18 11:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is very important to you, and you're probably not going to get the answer that you want. If he likes the other girl there's nothing you can do to change his mind. You are so young and so many boys are going to come & go. Your heart will be broken and you will break a lot of hearts. It's all part of growing up. I know you're most concerned about right now. The bottom line is, let him know exactly how you feel and if he does dump you for the other girl then he's not the kind of guy you need to be with.
2007-02-18 10:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in the sixth grade. So what if he kind of likes this girl. He's with you. And, if he decides tomarrow that he likes her and wants to go out with her, it won't make your world explode. This seems huge now, but in a few months, it will seem retarded. Plus, you could be missing out on hotter nicer, more HONEST guys by sticking with the first one that picked you up.
Did you ever stop to wonder why he went after you so quick after you got there? Maybe it's because there's no other girl that would date him because they all knew him. You being the new girl, you didn't know he was a weirdo/psycho/sicko... you just know a guy likes you right off the bat. And now, since you have a man before you got girlfriends, people might have the wrong impression of you. Be careful, and keep and ear out. You might have gotten yourself into a bad situation with this guy.
2007-02-18 10:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dumps you for an other girl...let him..he is not worth it..
You deserve better than that..and you are young so you will find an other guy eventually who likes you and respects you..and one that will be more mature.
If he stays with you..then good...but if he doesnt..just let him go...it just shows you werent meant to be with him.
But if he tells your friends he likes this other girl..then you should dump him ..
a guy that has a girlfriend should not be having feelings like this for an other girl.
Goodluck
2007-02-18 10:51:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeh i am n the sixth grade to and i have had this problem before what you do is straght up ask him are you going to break up with me and if he says yes you tell good iwanted to break up to so he does not feel presurred nad think you are clingy and then find a new boyfriend he helped you get in the game and now you can play.
2007-02-18 10:53:58 · answer #6 · answered by lady_bug110 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be scared sweetie?
if he dumps you for her, then that means he's a liar. why do you want to go out with a liar.
that other girl seems like a nasty girl anyway. who knows what other guys she's been hanging out with. let them be together. you are too good for that.
just remember the good old times and look at this is a way out to meet more guys!:) you are young, you need to have fun before you get too old and haggard to date:)
2007-02-18 10:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG girl im going threw the same thing
by boyfriend likes me but loves my best friend
and i heard rumers that he is gonna
dump me for her
good luck
2007-02-18 10:52:20 · answer #8 · answered by urluvmakesmeweak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw this movie! I think now you realise you can't force another person to love you so you let go of the attachment and get back to caring for yourself. The thing you fear most usually occurs, so if you don't think about it it may not happen.
Just be you- be happy with who you are and you will attract the right people.
2007-02-18 10:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by canguroargentino 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sweetie,hearts are meant to be broken,and if you have the least bit of confidence in you self you should let him do himand get your education you are to young to holla,you are scared he will leave,if something is yours no one should ever be able to steal it.also be scared if you miss the bus headed for school cause he won't give you a back ride.
2007-02-18 10:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Darnella C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She saw what she liked and she is going after it ,That's not a crime . Sorry you are having a hard time of it .act like it doesn't bother you and start talking to other guys ,the world is full of them .
2007-02-18 11:03:23 · answer #11 · answered by Elaine814 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋