Help Please!!! :) I need some ideas on how to take more control in Bed... I am not very dominant and I want to be. Any ideas on how I can please my man without doing the same thing all the time (head and riding) - i want to take control and not have it be boring.
2007-02-18 10:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by hello_butterfly13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take control in bed is an art of love making. Learn the art and you will never get bored.
2007-02-26 01:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't mention if your man is unhappy with your sexlife, or if you are just trying to keep it fresh and fun for both of you. Try getting some body paints and have fun painting each other, or some toys. For some men it is a real turn on to watch his partner masturbate. There are many things you can do to be more dominant. The biggest part of it is asking him to try new things, and always communicating to each other about your turn ons and turn offs.
2007-02-18 10:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be the aggressor, girl! Spank him, tell him what to do to YOU (eat me now) and maybe try some role-playing games (teacher & student, nurse and patient). But you aren't Dominant if you're just doing it to please "him" - YOU are the one who needs to be getting what YOU want! If you really "want to be" then try some reading "The Mistress Manual" and "The Female Dominant" are good places to start....
2007-02-21 12:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whips and chains should do the trick.
2007-02-18 10:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u can always tie him down
2007-02-18 10:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by kittynigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋