Well i talk to my friend or a group of my friends i am not shy at all i am so outgoing but even if i know all my class mates i can talk to each one of them endivsually but when i go unfront of the class its so nerve racking and when i talk to a girl i like its so scary how can i stop sbeing this shy?
2007-02-18 10:39:18 · 8 answers · asked by AustinRivers 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
i just think its teen angst and anxiety, nothing serious.
we all have it when it comes to certain things, like mine comes when i talk to other girls as well. but i have an anxiety disorder and i would recoomend that if it starts to get worse ie. anxiety/panic attacks or other physical symptoms you should consult a doctor :]
2007-02-18 10:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by aliciakatherine. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello Sahar. Every individual has his own personality. It is normal what you are feeling. I am shy too. I feel comfortable with my friends but get shy around the whole class. You have to get trained: always try to approach people, the first times will be really hard, but once you get used to it, it will become easier. In my case I was very nervous at doing presentations in front of a classroom. With practice I am not nervous anymore. Maybe you can talk to a psychiatrist about it and he can help you. Sometimes is an imbalance in brain neurotrasmiters which cause shyness. Argentox2@yahoo.com
2007-02-18 19:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh, I am exactly like you. 100% like you. I thought I was the only one in this world. Like you, I have no problem talking to friends or group of friends. I get so nervous right before I go infront of the class, it feels I am about to get a heart attack. I feel the same way about girls too, especially pretty girls. I felt like this ever since I was in high school. I still feel this way at the age of 29 and attending a 4 year university. This is my last semester by the way. So I don't think it's anything to do with teen age years. Was any of your family member verbally abusive when you were a child at least one time? I have one brother but no sister.
2007-02-18 18:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to be shy, there are many good qualities in shy people. The most important thing is does your shyness bother you? If it does, try working on getting more confidence in your speaking with strangers. People are not going to judge or criticize you for talking to them.
2007-02-18 21:31:01 · answer #4 · answered by juniorg23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not Shy you are just little "reserve" by nature, and secondly people don't like such type who just go anywhere and start saying whatever they feel like, Being yourself is being BEST, and if you think you are shy then this is what you really are, and just be yourself
2007-02-18 18:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so think about it ! you are over thinking yourself !you are nervous because you tell yourself that .thats why your calm with friends and classmates because you tell yourself that they pose no fear . so all it is :retrain yourself to think of public speaking as a no threat no fear thing that you will enjoy .its all about mind over matter . it really works . another thing is once its done once the next tme its even more easy until its gone forever . thank you , can i collect my fee now ?
2007-02-18 18:48:02 · answer #6 · answered by josh s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your just afraid of failure. it's natural. just remember that the outcome is always much less worse than you think and 90% of the time it is enjoyable.
2007-02-18 18:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by idog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so INSECURE AND GO OUT AND GET A LIFE!
2007-02-18 19:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Beckyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋