I am really in love with my boyfriend of three years. We are in a long distance relationship and see each other once a month. However, we have been long distance for so long and he is without me so much of the time that I am wondering if he cheats. Lately, I have seen some signs of cheating but he denies it. He also will not commit to anythign more than we have although what we have is great. If he has begun seeing someone else behind my back does that mean we are over?
2007-02-18 10:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by LDR02 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah..pretty much.
sorry dear.
2007-02-18 10:33:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I definatly think so. How can you even have a long distance relationship? At a distance, everything your relationship is, is at a distance. A relationship where you see the person on a regular basis and get to know them, and be a more solid part of their life is generally more valued. Even though you may feel you have a great relationship, if he's cheating, its obviously not the same deal for him.
2007-02-18 18:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Yvette! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are hard. Honestly if he were to cheat would you want to stay with him? Honesty and trust are some of the most important parts of a relationship you need these things to help it work. Have confidence in your self and trust your own insticts and you decide what you think is right. If he cheating for sure maybe you shouldn't stay together. If he isnt then he is telling the truth. sorry if i am not much help
2007-02-18 18:40:17 · answer #3 · answered by hope 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that means that u have to break up with him if he didin't want u anymore he would have just blown u of right there so u should break up with him if he's seeing other girls don't hang on to him
i still can't see how a man can do that! no u should break up with him it's just not fair to u don't let him break ur heart no man is worth crying for after he cheated on u
and u should not have a long distance realation ship find someone who can be there for u (24 7) not just once a month noooooooooooo and don't feel sorry for him at all trust me
2007-02-18 18:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by danielle d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you can answer that last question, it's whatever you allow. I would try and surprise him sometime and see if he's around another girl. relationships are built on trust and if you don't have that then what do you have? examine where you want to be in a few years. do you still want to have a boyfriend you only see once a month?
2007-02-18 18:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by bulloch2004 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You're in a long distance relationship
2. You just admitted that he will not commit to anything more
FYI, long distance relationships never work out . From what you said, I think it's time to move on. Your relationship is not going anywhere. Find someone local.
2007-02-18 18:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
signs can be a lot next time you see him have a long conversation about something....when you run out of something to say ask him how he spends his time over there...ask him what he does when he needs a "friend"...(in your own words would be better) since you have been togeather so long you should be able to tell if he is or not.
usually if they get angry it because they are mad at themselves for lying to you....just look at him he'll tell you everything without saying a word the secoend you asjk him flat out
2007-02-18 18:36:32 · answer #7 · answered by Madison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes when they start seeing others it is over. You be the one to break it off, tell him long distance doesn't work for you anymore, you want and deserve a real relationship. Tell him you know it is over because you doubt his faithfulness and the trust is gone. Maybe he will confess, but it is over.
2007-02-18 18:33:38 · answer #8 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Simply ask him where he sees the two of you in five years. Don't give a pressure question of marriage if you want to keep him and he is a young guy.
2007-02-18 18:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by celestelowry 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should make it over
2007-02-18 18:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by dotcombust007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋