I was just going out with this girl when she said she wanted to take a break from dating and just get to know each other and be friends first since we jumped into the relationship. Then about 1 1/2 weeks after that she asked out some other guy that she didn't even know. Know she is telling me that shes in love with me and wants me back but doesn't want to break up with this new guy. Shes been cheating on him with me but she says she wants to keep it secret until she breaks up with him but she doesn't know when thats going to be. She just keeps telling me she has mixed emotions about me and this other guy and she doesn't know what to do. So what do i do to win her over?
2007-02-18 10:27:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you really that crazy . If you were with her would you think it was OK for her to sleep with the other guy ? No it isn't right . You should leave the trash out at the curb and move on . Why would you want to win her back that is trash and you deserve better . Wake up man for real . Sorry I'm being so straight forward but come on wake up now . GOOD LUCK !
2007-02-18 10:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately, forget her. She sounds like a real loser who is disturbingly comfortable with being dishonest. If she's comfortable with sleeping around like that, she should be woman-enough to tell all the involved people, as they deserve, and probably want to know. You would want to know something like that, right? You seem to think in a way that rumours proclaim guys are incapable of... which means that you should be a lot more critical of the women you date so you can preserve yourself as one of the good ones. The trouble she'll take you through could change your outlook and close you up. Meaning that a deserving girl will never get a decent chance with you, and you wont get to experience the happiness you deserve either because your broken heart will be shielded forever. If that doesnt sway you.. just keep reminding yourself that HPV can be transmitted even while using protection, which means if she gets it from that guy, then you'll probably get it from her; and there's no way to assure someone who's dividing herself, isnt also bringing ever-giving gifts back for you.
2007-02-18 19:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by wyrefrog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A smart man would cut his losses and move on. This girl needs to figure out what she really wants. Obviously it isn't you or the new guy because she is playing with your emotions and his. Don't try to win her back. Let her go. You are more valuable than that. You deserve someone who loves you and isn't just using you until the next new bounce comes along.
2007-02-18 18:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Win her over? Shes playing you like a fiddle.
Shes more serious with this other guy than she is with you. Make her choose, tell her you are not going to see her anymore until she dumps the other guy, and if she doesn't then move on, or keep her for the booty call, but start getting unemotionally attached until she commits to you 100%.
She sounds shady, can you actually trust her if she makes you her boyfriend? HOW?
2007-02-18 18:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. of Situational Psychology 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you do or how you act; she is going to do what she wants to do. It is flattering for a woman to have two guys after her, so she's probably really feeding into this. It's obvious that you love her; but do you really want to be with somebody dishonest? How do you know that if you win her over, she won't do what she is doing now with somebody else?
2007-02-18 18:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by jazzies0412 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her. if shes cheating already in front of your eyes, even if its not on you, how do you know she wont do it TO YOU behind your back with a different guy in front of them. bad choice if you go out with her again. your only going to get hurt.
2007-02-18 18:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i say leave her in the past. She is a two timing girl. Move on.
2007-02-18 18:31:09 · answer #7 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask her the truth about being with u. and ask her straightly who she wants to be with u or that guy.
2007-02-18 18:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you get sex
and another guy pays for her
i guess i don't see the problem
2007-02-18 18:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by mgd1k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone she's too indescisive. If she has to date someone else to be appreciated, then your realtionship is going to be messed up.
2007-02-18 18:31:22 · answer #10 · answered by Noree 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋