What would you do if you had a guy friend who tried to kiss you but you only saw him as a friend and nothing more? Would you make it clear right there that you will only be friends and there is no possibility of anything more or would you just reject the kiss with your cheek and let him assume this?
2007-02-18 09:58:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I really saw a guy as only a friend, and I could never see him as anything more, I would just tell him. Because there's no way I would even want him to have the idea in his mind that maybe I was interested, and I was juts being coy. No. I'd be like "I'm sorry, what'syourname, it just won't work. I like you as a person, you're really cool, but...we're just not right for each other".
If I was actually attracted to the guy, though, but I knew something about his personality that I didn't like so that I knew that I wouldn't want to date him, I'd probably let him kiss me on the cheek.
2007-02-18 10:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by kate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would reject the kiss in a way that wouldn't make him feel uncomfortable. And then forget it happened. I'm probably not the best person to ask cause I'm always trying to "save face" for others and am not very direct in situations like that.
2007-02-18 18:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would reject the kiss and maybe talk to him when he calmes down, or in an iother time. Friends are important for me, but I do not think that a friendship is possible if one side is in love.
2007-02-18 18:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend is a friend but you crossed the line when you kissed me, Then tell that person let's not let this end our friendship.I want to be friends only, and I don't mean kissing friends
2007-02-18 18:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Nice isn't it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be absolutely honest with him and not let him kiss me at all. Leading someone on is not nice nor is it fair. I would hope and pray that the awkward situation didn't jeopardize our friendship, but there's no way I could let him think that something might develop when it won't.
2007-02-18 18:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you must realize an instance of shock will consume all thoughts. May even cause panic, and most importantly the fact that you have crossed the line of friendship. A sense of betrayal may be felt by her, because you have ruined a perfect friendship in her eyes. With that it will all depend on the female, whether she will have enough faith in maintaining the friendship and telling you that is all she wants, or if she will end it because of its awkwardness. I hope you understand this answer! From personal experience, hope it helps you understand the anatomy of the woman!
2007-02-18 18:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by sjones3569 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it was me, i'd just tell him that i just think of him as a friend and nothing more. if you actually let him kiss the cheek, he might just think that your not ready to kiss on the lips.
2007-02-18 18:03:09 · answer #7 · answered by What??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably ruin the friendship and I'd never talk to him again. Either that, or I'd lead him on while refusing his advances just because I liked the attention. I'd probably be more likely to do the second one if he was a good friend. But it would kind of stress me out.
2007-02-18 18:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by August lmagination 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends how good of a friend he was, if he was a really good friend and I really cared about him it might be really difficult for me to tell him I only saw him as a friend because then I would be afraid of loosing him.
2007-02-18 18:02:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he tried to kiss me I would turn my head so he would not kiss my lips and just tell him that we're just friends.
2007-02-18 18:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋