Okay, so i have been totally crushing on this guy that i have known for like let's say three and a half years. but that is okay because i have really gotten to know him this year. we talk to one another like everyday, and we are always laughing and having fun. i mean i seen the way he looks at me sometimes and it is sort of intense but in a really good way. we can pretty much talk about anything and still have fun. we also have a lot in common. he sort of asked me out last year but i had to decline but not because i didn't want to it was because i had other plans that weekend. so what i want to know is why won't he make a move. i mean is it because we have known each other for so long? because i am sick and tired of waiting for him to make a move.
2007-02-18 09:54:17 · 6 answers · asked by madison c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweety, he DID make a move. if u feel that this is the guy for u, step up and claim what's u feel is yours. ask him out. show him in a direct way where your head is. stop "creating an atmosphere" where he'll make a move. a lot of women do that and that seems to not be working in your case. step to him...and good luck to you.
2007-02-18 10:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by tjb2676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u make the move. I'm a guy, and let me tell u it can get pretty nerve racking trying to ask a girl out especially one that is ur friend. Maybe he is scared that if he gets rejected he would lose ur friendship too.
2007-02-18 17:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by ravi.thebest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do guys always have to be the ones to make the first move?
2007-02-18 17:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by trusted 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you turned him down before, he probably has that stuck in his head. Most guys fear rejection more than anything else, and so he doesn't want to get denied again. He also probably sees things going well now and doesn't want to make it awkward by asking you out. Either drop some real serious hints or ask him out yourself.
2007-02-18 17:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nick 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so make a move its ok for the girl to make the first move heck we like it so go for it
2007-02-18 17:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you make a move?
2007-02-18 17:57:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋