Why im always alone?

Question

Im 29 years old male they tell me i look good much better then the averege but in my life i only had 2 sort relations.I have good manners im gentle and sensiive maybe shy and not too social.That can explane some but not all.99% of the times im getting close to make a relation something goes wrong like im cursed!! Someone in the family gets sick, a sudden problem occures, someoneelses fault mess things up etc .It happens all my life! Is it a curse? help me

Answer 1

Are you certain, you REALLY want a committed relationship?You sound very nice, decent, and not too full of yourself. However, it sounds as though you might be making excuses for ant relationships to go to the level of FULL commitment. You seem to blame external reasons for you being alone,a family emergency, a sudden problem, your cursed, someone else ALWAYS messes things up? I think maybe you just need more time before you are ready to commit to a serious relationship. There is nothing wrong with not committing, but ask yourself WHY is it always someone else's fault? If you were in a relationship, that you were in love, happy, and your girl meant the world to you, you would find a way for things to work out. For those of us in serious relationships, we have problems and issues that arise too, and we manage to wear many different hats.

Answer 2

Hi I´m a gal but almost the same happens to me....

And no, it´s not a curse........maybe you haven´t met the right gal that understand the whole situation....

All that i can tell you is go out (even by youself or with friends) and enjoy your life how it is... maybe it sounds weird but if you don´t expect something to happen it will happen.
Don´t look for it, the relationship will appear by itself.

It has happenned to me the 2 tmes I´ve had a relationship so move on, you´ll find someone if you don´t look for it.

Join some classes, something that involves both sexes and try to meet people.

I go to free movies, to te same pub.....just make things on a regular basis and you´ll find someon tha crosses your path.

Answer 3

Sounds like you're not putting yourself out there enough. You can't expect these things to fall into your lap. You have to go out and meet people and go after what you want. You can't help these other problems, but you can try to overcome them. There are plenty of people to keep you company. You just have to go out and meet them.

Answer 4

Your family should always comes first. You have not met the most understanding and loving man yet. Keep your chin high and smile.

Answer 5

huh, I need the same help. good answer. I am also waiting for the answers. :-)