My ex broke up with me for lots of reason. He said he didn't feel like being in a relationship, he didn't want to end up in a loveless relationship, and he had a secret that I would find silly but is big to him. He said we would still be friends though. Later he told me he didn't like how I talked about the future(Umm, hes the one who asked me to take his last name), he didn't love me at all, and he never wants to be with me again. But somtimes I'll look in his direction and notice him looking at me. He avoids talking to me or looking at me even when I smile or wave to him in the hall. When were hanging out with mutual friends he stil dosn't talk to me and if he says somthing funny and I laugh he just looks at me weird. It's really kinda annoying and I want him to be my friend but I'm having a hard time talking to him when he won't talk to me. I wouldn't normally care but I see him so often its strange for us not to be friends. How should I deal with this and why is he being like this?
2007-02-18 09:42:54 · 8 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes no matter how hard we try we can't stay friends after a break-up.....this sounds like one of those times.
Maybe if you take a complete break from each other one day you can be friends.
2007-02-18 09:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, it sounds as though he has a lot of resentment built up towards you. From the information provided, I don't know why. Is there something you did that could have caused him to feel this way? Otherwise, this all seems rather unwarranted. I would recommend leaving him alone for an extended period of time and let him work out his issues.
2007-02-18 17:49:18 · answer #2 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and don't worry about him and what he is doing. He is being silly for some reason, no one knows why, and you can't do anything about it. So, just ignore him.
2007-02-18 17:50:38 · answer #3 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's only being annoying because you're obsessed with him. It's clear he wants you to leave him alone. You should move on.
2007-02-18 17:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is just a jerk i wouldn't care if i were you just treat him as bad as he treats you or just come face to face with him and tell him he needs to shape up and he better do it quick! that is what i would do whether it helps you or not i wish you luck!
2007-02-18 17:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by equestrian♥babex2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in your same situation. If he doesnt want to be friends than F him.....
2007-02-18 17:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by hey! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont be his friend its that easy... im not friends with my ex either
2007-02-18 17:52:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him...
2007-02-18 17:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋