So the other day, my boyfriend kissed me. And we started making out. It was the first time I had ever kissed him, and it was my first kiss.
I like the guy. The setting was fine, (we were in the movies) But for some reason, I didn't really like kissing. I got kinda bored.
Could it be that maybe I just generally don't enjoy kissing? Is anyone else like that? Or could it be that since this was my first kiss, I was nervous. I like the guy so I don't think that's it.
I didn't like, feel sparks or any of that. Maybe he/I'm just not a good kisser (yet)>
2007-02-18 09:41:46 · 23 answers · asked by CAlifORniABABBAYY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It could be so many things... You might have just been nervous, the setting could have just caused you to not really be able to get in to it, could have been your lack of skill or his, or both. You may not be that in to him, or actually, you may not be in to kissing. I guess someone could just not be in to kissing, I guess even though I absolutely love it,...its hard to imagine, but I guess its possibly.
2007-02-18 09:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by no_me_no_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it simply depends on the kisser. My ex-husband was a terrible kisser and I hated kissing him (that's not why we divorced, however). His kisses were very wet and slobbery, and we are not even talking French kissing. I always had to wipe off my face after kissing him. My fiance now is the most fantastic kisser. Kissing him is very, very pleasant. Kissing is something that when you are new at it, you have to get used to. It helps to have someone who knows how to kiss well. Just relax and don't think about it too much. If you don't like it, then there is certainly nothing wrong with preferring not to kiss, or simply to keep the kissing to a quick, tender kiss on the lips. Things will get better. I felt the same way when I was younger.
2007-02-18 09:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never felt any sparks either with kissing, though there were women who I enjoyed kissing a whole lot more than others. If the person you're kissing has bad breath or bad teeth, or just forces too much tongue on you, then all you're thinking about is how much is enough.
But many people don't like to kiss much. You may just be one of those. Nothing to be worried about.
With my last gf I'd rather just give her the old chicken peck kisses...I didn't like to kiss her open-mouthed.
2007-02-18 09:47:06 · answer #3 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry...you didn't say how old you are but it may be a combination of the two of you being inexperienced kissers, your age, and the fact that "passion" is probably a few years down the road.
Give it time...I bet you will meet someone at some point with whom you will enjoy kissing...when you're 16 or so (old enough to be dating and kissing)...
2007-02-18 09:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering it was your first kiss, there could be any reason youu weren't enjoying it. I wouldn't worry too much about it unless it becomes a problem every time you kiss someone. After you marry someone it is quite common for kissing to become less frequent and even sex can become boring. In your case though, just give it time. There really are some people who just aren't excited by kissing.
2007-02-18 09:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 07:18:56 · answer #6 · answered by fabbozzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, id like to hear the answer, you see i had my first kiss in the movies the other ady and all it felt was wet, though my bf reckons im a good kisser, im a bit confused as well. i am fine with kissing my family on the cheeks but i felt nothing either, it almost was gross, whats wrong with me?
2007-02-18 09:54:43 · answer #7 · answered by b.girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course u could not like kissing or maybe u were nervous. Anyway before I would give it another chance, but like whatever u like
2007-02-18 09:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't imagine not liking kissing...but then, I've kissed a few people I didn't enjoy kissing. Just relax and try it again. You might like it next time.
2007-02-18 09:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by janejane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know i how you feel although i feel the sparks and butterflies when i do I'm just not real big on making out...I'd rather have passionate kisses w/o the slobbery mess...i just think you haven't found the style you enjoy yet...
2007-02-18 09:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋