well, I just would to like to opinions on that ...Would you date a woman of your age who has a son ...let's say 28 for example, with a son of 4 years ....!! I am not married yet, I have just met a girl who told me she has a son and that she has broken up with her precious husband recently ....!! what do you think about that ? should go deep in that file ?
2007-02-18 09:32:54 · 6 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i really liked her and wanted to get to know her more her having a son wouldnt stop me from datting her
2007-02-18 09:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by Male_42_us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How recent is recently? I wouldn't want to jump into a relationship with someone who had recently left their spouse, especially where there are children involved. For one thing, I would want to give that person some time before jumping into a relationship with them. Plus, when children are involved, you still have to deal with your ex a good part of the time.I'm not saying don't get involved, just give it some time. I have an 11 year old son from a previous marriage, and I had been divorced for 2 1/2 years when I met my present husband. My son was 8 years old when my present husband and I got married. We have been married for almost 3 years now, and I still have to deal with my ex on almost a daily basis because we each have 50% custody, so my son spends half of his time with his Dad and half of his time with us. Unfortunately, I don't think there is one easy answer to your question. I think alot of it depends on the adults (including ex's) and the children involved - how well the adults get along and how well the child(ren) accept the new person that their parent is dating. Just take things slow, give it some time, and see how things go. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-18 17:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm defenitly no expert on dating but I am a girl and I wouldn't want a guy to neglect me and turn me down because I had a son if he turned me down I'd want him to turn me down for me and it's not like u have to marry her just get to know her and if u love her you'll love her son too and even if u don't you'llwant to spend your time with her son or not.
2007-02-18 17:42:52 · answer #3 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before christams i dated a woman with two kids, girl 15, and a boy 4, listen its all good they were good kids, why wouldnt you??I know a lot of men dont like a ready made family,go for it.
2007-02-18 17:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by terryodell42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was dating I never dated a guy if he had children.
I didn't want to have a ready made family or the baggage that comes with a ready made family.
That was my decision but you have to make your own.
2007-02-18 17:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it if you like her why not kids are fun just dont jump in and try to take the dads place that could end up with a beat down . try it if she liks you go for it
2007-02-18 17:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋