Hey I have kind of a weird question. If I am 14 years old, red hair 5 ft tall not repulsive in any way, really fun to be around, funny, (i guess) but I've never had a boyfriend never kissed a boy never danced with a boy and never hugged a boy until like last month.... is that weird? whats wrong with me?
2007-02-18 09:29:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are tooooo young for any of that stuff...wait till you are 17 or 18 then worry but now have fun with your friends and enjoy life
2007-02-18 12:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by mona w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you...you're young and taking things slow is the best thing you can do. I'm sure there are many guys who want to go out with you, but don't forget...at 14 guys are immature and not always the bravest, so they may not be asking you for that reason! Take you time, enjoy your teens...there the only ones you have...eventually you will fall in love and have a family, and all the other things in life but for now...have loads of fun and enjoy being 14 :)
2007-02-18 17:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time, I didnt start dating until I was 16 And Didnt want to date, I am now 24 And I found the one and only for me. When you find the right person you will know...... Dont fall for the stupid guys who say they will be with you forever, just to get in your pants, your one true love with thank you for that.
You seem like a smart young girl who will grow up to know what you want in life and you will not fall for the jerks.
By the way, I am a 6ft tall redhead, Guys Love red hair.
I was reading the other responses
Please whatever you do dont listen to that jerk patrick B, He is really A phyco, He needs alot of help. He posted a question that I had answered. He is one nut job you dont need to listen too. Please. You can do so much better in your life without a guy. There are some craxys out there you dont need to mess with.
2007-02-19 22:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Trying 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no shame in being 14 and not had a boyfriend or been kissed. At that age you should be more into friends, school and family. The complication of love interests will come along in their own sweet time.
2007-02-18 17:35:46 · answer #4 · answered by pammiepoo_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 14, what does it matter? I'm 10 years older than you and a guy and never had a girlfriend before and have obviously always liked girls. I plan on getting not only a girlfriend, but get married before the age of 30, I hope.
2007-02-20 00:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AW(: Sweetie..you're totally normal! Not rushing into things is just wonderful(: You sound like an amazing person! Any guy would be lucky to have you in his arms(: And NOTHING is wrong with you! What happened is totally normal. I'm 15, and didn't do that until I was 12..people are just different! I like your individuality! Hope I helped, and don't be too hard on yourself!
2007-02-18 17:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Schmanders 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not wierd at all. Growing up I didn't even start to notice boys until I was 14 and didn't get my first kiss until 16. Don't be in such a hurry...there's plenty of time for boy stuff when you are ready...
2007-02-18 17:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not a weird question, dear!
hey, im 15 and ive not had a boyfrined..
or kissed..or danced with a boy :]
hugs, all the time.. but..
:rings a bell:
you are completely and totally normal!
and you are not alone!
being single isnt so bad!
we dont have to answer to a jealous boyfreind...
and are spared the drama!
<3
2007-02-18 17:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by ninjah_jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. There's nothing wrong with you. The time will come when you'll be ready for a boyfriend. Don't rush things. They will happen naturally.
2007-02-18 17:36:23 · answer #9 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not weird at all, and in this day and age with diseases and such its a good idea to wait until youre older. Dont have a kid at that age either
2007-02-18 17:34:36 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋