Okay there is this guy in my class we are best friends and now I see that i really like him but i dont know how to tell him without ruining our friendship
2007-02-18 09:29:05 · 7 answers · asked by sandra a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a private place to tell him.
Look him straight in the eye.
Tell the history and such, and tell him of your crush.
Don't hesitate.
If you've been really good friends, the only thing that'll get in the way is the fear of rejection. You fear it, and so does your crush. If he doesn't like you that way, he'll get scared of rejecting you and severely hurting your feelings. Just... stay calm and do what you think is best.
2007-02-18 09:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you don't want to ruin your relationship do you?
Well, their are risks in eveything, but there are ways to get around this.
First, you may want to figure out if he likes you the same way or not. he probably doesn't since you guys are just great friends. I don't know how old you are, but boys do start to like girls around 13.
And, as it is for most boys, the like appearance. Go buy a cute outfit and wear it to school one day. Dab on some make-up. (DON'T GO OVERBOARD) Wash yourself in some nice smelling shampoo. Fix your hair. (Also, don't go overboard.) The next day, confide your secret in another friend. Then have that friend ask him about it.
If he says "No, I don't like her that way." don't worry about it. Just keep dressing up in cute outfits and doing hair, ect. I can almost guaruntee that you'll bring a blush to his face. Be really sweet to him. The after a while, get a different friend. (or the same one) to ask him again. If he says no again, then you'll just have to wait for a while.
On the other hand, if he says yes, then, well, you know what to do. =)
I hope this advice helps, and good luck!
2007-02-18 17:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Carly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a really hard place 2b in.i went out with one of my best friends.i tried 2 trick myself in2 believing i didnt like him and i told him i didnt wanna ruin r friendship.i went out with him and now r friendship isnt the same.but i know thats how it was supposed 2b cuz if we were meant 2b just friends all that time then i wouldnt have fallen in love with him.tell him on IM or let a friend tell him.if u tell him there will be a gap between u unless u go out.but most of the time if a guy is ur best friend he likes u 2.u can im him, email him, or write him a note if u dont have the courage 2 say it 2 his face.if u wanna know wut his reaction is 4 sure and that hes not messin w/ ur head then tell him on the phone.if u dont have the guts 2 tell him at all urself then have a friend do it.good luck
2007-02-18 17:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by sweet.brunette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask him how he feels about you. If he says he likes you as a friend, don't even go further. Accept his friendship for now. You don't want to get hurt or embarrassed, so be cool.
2007-02-18 17:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u should do iz tell him about the way u feel and if he feels da same way about u ya should give it a try
2007-02-18 17:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy , get to know him even better , then talk to him. Don't you think you are going a bit too far right now?
2007-02-18 17:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rizal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speek out for love
2007-02-18 17:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋