I really like my bf and im still a teenager. We only get 3/4 hours of bf/gf time a week. Before we didnt do much until last week he tends to fell me up now but sometimes i feel uncomfortable about it.
So how do i say "no" without putting him off?
2007-02-18 09:25:47 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simply no i'm not ready
2007-02-18 09:27:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Putting him off is exactly what you want, isn;t it? You just said so. You want him to stop.
First you can be playful about it and chastise him verbally while moving his hand away. If he doesn't get the hint then get up and walk away from him, but with a smile on your face. If this doesn't work then he's a moron and you're going to have to sit him down and very seriously tell him that you're not ready for that yet and it really bothers you when he goes too far...set some limits and make him stick to them. If he's worth keeping, he'll repect your wishes and back off. Right now he's pushing you like a child does their parents at about 2y/o...seeing what he can get away with. Now's the time to teach him.
2007-02-18 09:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him no and that you are not comfortable with what he is doing. if he does not like that tell him to get lost and move on I know that is hard but it has to be done don't forget that you have the control of that. It is better to wait and be happy and comfortable in what you are undertaking. it is a huge deal always think what could happen if something goes wrong such and STD's or pregnancy. and would you be ready for that.
2007-02-18 09:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no....explain to him why...a respectable guy that cares about you will understand and back off. A guy out for one thing only will be a jerk about and give you a hard time and is not the guy for you. Just be sure to mean your answer...do not say no, but mean yes because this will confuse the situation and then the guy will always push thinking you really mean yes...
2007-02-18 09:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by no_me_no_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guide his hands to a more appropriate place (in your opinion that is). I've had to do the same thing. If he keeps doing it, just say something like, "you're getting a little too personal." Say it with a smile and a kiss afterwards and he won't be too put off.
2007-02-18 09:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cares about you, he wouldn't feel put off. I'd try to meet in places where neither of you is tempted. Go out with friends instead. If he doesn't like any of it I would question his motives. Sometimes, a boy wants sex and that's it.
2007-02-18 09:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no! I mean he does understand English doesn't he? Let him know you're not ready for this part of the relationship yet. If it puts him off then you know where his head really is.
2007-02-18 09:30:50 · answer #7 · answered by diamoniquejazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter how many hours you get.
No is still No. Tell him that you are not ready,
so he needs to backoff or come back in a couple
of years.
2007-02-18 09:29:24 · answer #8 · answered by happy_southernlady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him that you are just not ready for that yet, don't be forced into anything you don't want to do.
If he is a descent boyfriend he will understand and give you the time and space that you need.
Good luck xxx
2007-02-18 09:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight no i don't want to i don't feel right about it yet! tell him you like him but your only young and not ready for that side of the relationship yet. if he really likes you he will respect your decision if he kicks of then hes not worth it!! dont be pressured into anything. good luck
2007-02-18 09:32:48 · answer #10 · answered by girljak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just say no. If you are incomfortable about somthing then you say NO, and thats that. If it puts him off then he doesnt respect you or your feelings, so drop the looser. Do not get forced / pushed into doing somthing you are unhappy with.
2007-02-18 20:30:51 · answer #11 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋