ok so exactly one month ago my best friend *Jake* (name changed) found out I'd liked him for a really long time. (9 years) When his little sister *Sally* told me this i was scared. I didnt want to go on like i usually did when something like this came up. You know , like, "Uhh what the heck whered u get that? what a lie!" cuz i didnt wanna lie to him so i decided to tell him how i felt. I called him that afternoon and told him exactly how I felt and how I didnt want it to ruin our friendship and that I still wanted to stay friends no matter what and Id try to stop liking him if he wanted me to. And all he said was ok and he hung up the phone. (we go to different schools) Its been one month since we've said a word to each other....... Im really upset for losing my best friend. What should I do! I will go with whatever the best answer you give is. PLEASE HURRY!
2007-02-18 09:23:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe he's busy with his activities. If you've been good friends for a long time, he shouldn't be... ignoring you like that. Try calling him again, and make sure that if he doesn't want anything further than friendship, you wouldn't want anything farther than a friendship either. Maybe the fact that he doesn't like you back that way is on his mind and he has a fear of rejecting you. Just tell him that you're ok as long as you stay friends.
2007-02-18 09:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Eden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jake and ask him if he does like u or if he just wants to be friends. Tell him if he feels weird to tell u so you'll know instead of wondering what if.
2007-02-18 17:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋