I was at the store the other day with a friend and our kids when we ran into this man my friend and her husband hang out with. I know this guy, but don't hang out with him or anything. When I had stepped away he took my friend aside and told her that my daughter is going to "be hot" in a few years. My friend didn't think it was a big deal, but I thought it was creepy and if I had heard I think I would have gotten mad and said something to the man. My daughter is only 7 years old, and people will tell me she's adorable or pretty, but I've never had anyone say that she's going to be hot. Was this wrong of that man to say or am I overreacting?
2007-02-18 09:17:23 · 20 answers · asked by nimo22 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Girl......you may have been face to face with a nasty sexual predator....you never know now a days.....be very careful and take it as what your gut feeling told you....it is never wrong;) I have 3 girls and a boy and am extremely protective of them....WHO ELSE WILL PROTECT THEM IF YOU DON'T???? good luck and keep those babies safe:)
2007-02-18 09:39:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very liberal person but this was totally inappropriate! Who else but a perv would look at a 7 year old little girl and foresee hotness? Just to be safe, don't let your child anywhere near this man!
2007-02-18 20:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by samsona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's seriously disturbing, creepy and inappropriate. You are NOT overreacting at all. Keep an eye on that person. It's hard to believe sometimes, but there are a lot of pedophiles and sexual deviants in this world. BE CAREFUL.
2007-02-18 17:27:18 · answer #3 · answered by charbatch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, what he said was very inappropriate!! Thats disgusting. Shes seven years old. I know someone whos uncle is like that, hes like in his 30yrs or early 40yrs & he hits on young grils & says they have a nice back side exc exc. Thats very creepy & almost makes me sick to my stomach! I'd keep an eye on that guy if I wre you, I mean I don't mean to maker accusations, but you never know these days. Best OF Luck!!
2007-02-18 18:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by Carly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that is disgusting and inappropriate . I think that if you were there you should have spoke your mind. Your friend( not judging her) obviously does not understand the difference between complement and creepy. She should have said something..... and I think that is immature on her part for her not to say anything. You should overreact. That is your child.
2007-02-18 17:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by iluvchrisb_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was very wrong of him to say .he sounds like a pervert.keep your daughter a way from him don't let your daughter go over your friends house with out you,i hope your friend doesnt have kids with him hanging around.you could never be too careful now days.
2007-02-18 18:49:12 · answer #6 · answered by luv babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is quite inappropriate for a grown man to look at a seven-year-old in a sexual way. I'd keep your daughter well away from him.
2007-02-18 18:08:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Saying she is cute or pretty is WAY different then saying that she is "going to be hot in a few years". Your friend should of smacked him right then and there. That is wrong!
2007-02-18 18:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Shine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up. Yes, I am definitely creeped out by what he said. Keep her away from him...do not allow him to visit your house when she is there EVER.
2007-02-18 17:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
NOT AT ALL YOU HAVE EVERY RIGHT TO BE ANGRY AND I THINK IF YOU WERE TO EVER SEE HIM AGAIN I WOULD LET HIM KNOW THAT I AM THE MOTHER OF 4 GIRLS AND I KNOW I WOULD OF ASKED MY FRIEND FOR THE NUMBER OF THE GUY AND CALLED HIM AND TOLD HIM WHAT I THOUGHT JUST MAKE SURE YOUR DAUGHTER IS NEVER NEAR HIM AGAIN
2007-02-18 17:22:42 · answer #10 · answered by HOT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋