Is it such a turnoff that you wouldn't consider datng him ? I'd say that most men eventually get a belly ---- would you encourage him to lose it ??
2007-02-18 09:10:02 · 7 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't say how old you are but a potbelly on a man is no less diesirable than the upper part of a woman going south. It's not looks that count, is how you are treated, and cared for. Pot bellies can be taken care of by a little dieting but when a woman had children and things go south only surgery can correct that.
Stop looking so much at the outside and look at the inside of the person. I loved someone very much and he had a pot belly and was bald. Someone I wouldn't have ever thought of ever loving. Without going into detail, I learned then that looks don't always mean anything. He passed away last August and even though we never married, we had a friendship that I will always cherish - You never know - those potbellies can be more lovable then those who think themselves to be womans gift to man - give it a chance.
2007-02-18 09:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by grandmabonnie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So long as it is not adversely effecting his health...nothing wrong with a little extra around his middle. However, if it is keeping him from good health, I would encourage him to whittle his waist. But, it wouldn't keep me from being able to have a relationship with him. . We could just take walks together...quality time and exercise won't hurt either one of us. If one is going to only consider dating men with washboard abs....they might very well miss out on some of the best men out there....
2007-02-18 09:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i personally dont find it bad at all. looks arnt everything, most girls will go for a potbellied man who can make her laugh then a good looking guy whos got the personality of a wet blanket. so really... if they do find it so bad a turn off that the couldnt stand to be with that guy.... would he really want to be with someone who is as shallow to think that? as long as he is happy then thats that... it someone elses problem if they dont like it
2007-02-18 09:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by x_girls_on_film_x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on how old the guy is. Personally I would consider having him work out. I'd encourage that. After all working out makes ya look and feel better.
2007-02-18 09:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by Trish 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First it depends what man the potbelly is on. That would be up to him...
2007-02-18 09:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My concern would come in if he can't breath. Otherwise poppa guts are sexyyy!!!!
2007-02-18 09:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by Noree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well... sadly ... if you want a hot.. in shape girl.. then you gotta loose it babe!!
2007-02-18 09:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋