I'm a pagan girl, and this guy that likes me has Christain parents. We might even start dating, but I'm not sure what his parents will think of me, because I know for the most part Christains don't like pagans.
2007-02-18 09:05:21 · 5 answers · asked by Maggie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being a Pagan myself, I know what you're going through. I wouldn't worry so much about the religion issue until you start dating exclusively and really get into a serious relationship with this guy. Personally, I'd be more focused on how your guy feels about the whole religion issue, and worry about the parents later. It's not something I'd bring up right away, but don't avoid the question if it comes up. If it does become an issue, then it wasn't meant to be. Just remember there are more fish in the sea. Oh, and don't let anyone change who you are. Be yourself and everything else will fall into place.
As for right now, I'd focus on getting to know each other and having fun on your dates. It's not like you're going to get married anytime soon. So, less worrying, more fun!
2007-02-18 09:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by fyreant99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I do not know his parents, it is difficult to judge how they will react, but reactions do vary. Not all Christians dislike Pagans, not to mention that parents often tend to find other reasons to like or dislike people.
Be yourself, treat him well, and be polite and hopefully everything will go well.
I have had conflicts with the parents' of girlfriends before and very rarely has religion been the issue. The only one time that religion was a real issue with them, they figured they could eventually convert me, so they were willing to overlook it, as I was treating their daughter well and making her happy.
I did once perform a wedding where the bride's Christian family chose not to come. She was upset, but she was in love. The wedding went forward as planned. If they can get married knowing that her parents didn't approve of their religion, I think that you can certainly go on a date without knowing how the parents feel, if that is what would make you happy.
2007-02-20 01:05:16 · answer #2 · answered by Geoffrey J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think ifyou two like each other you should give the relationship a try.
2007-02-18 17:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by squ_ishy07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Dating Never matters...
But in marriage matters...
2007-02-18 17:09:56 · answer #4 · answered by Vivek K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your self and love him and his parents
and you will see his parents will start liking you too
good luck
2007-02-18 17:10:09 · answer #5 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋