i hate my moms house, i dont wanna live wit her anymore. my dad just got a new house and i really like it and its in the same skool zone for my skool. his old house was in a whole diffrent skool district. of course my mom will not want me to move in with him, im her only girl and she like depends on me to wacth my younger brothers. but the reason i wanna move in wit my dad is cause whenever my mom is home all she is doing is yelling at me and blaming **** on me. she dosnt believe im depressed i bet if i told my dad about it he would actually care and believe me. how should i tell my mom i wanna move in wit my dad and how should i tell my dad i wanna move in wit him.
2007-02-18 09:02:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
im 14 in 4 weeks, and i have to go to my dads house every other weekend and every tuesday nite. no my dad hasnt said i could move in wit him cause i havent asked him yet. but my twin asked my mom once and she said he could go over there and live wit my dad.
2007-02-18 09:12:27 · update #1
i dont really want to spend more time wit my dad. i just want to get away from my mom and her annoying *** bf.
2007-02-18 09:17:09 · update #2
Em first of all hey!! but lol i would say mom i dont like my life living with you in this house cuz i hate your BF and i wanna live with dad. I know u have a lot of sibs so she prob wouldnt mind. and as for asking your dad tell him how u r treated at ur moms and say can i plz live with u and im sure he woould say hell yea!!!!
2007-02-18 09:54:19 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Booger♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like everyone knows the situation. If your mom is more interested in her boyfriend than taking care of you guys, ask her if she's willing to give up her custody (legally) so you guys can live with your dad instead. If your dad can prove to the court that she is an unfit mother (not home often, verbally abusive etc..) they probably reward your dad a full custody. Tell her that you don't think living with her is working out since she doesn't have time for you and your sister. Let her know that you guys need a stable family lifestyle and a loving family. If she can't provide it then you ask her to move in with your dad permanently. Tell her exactly how you feel. That's the only way to send the message across. Don't be afraid. Maybe it will help her to think of the way she treating you guys.
2016-05-24 03:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? What does the custody/visitation agreement ordered by the Court say about who you live with? Has your Dad said you could move in? Those are all pretty important questions.
I recommend you talk to both of your parents and let them know you want to spend more time with dad. Start out with lengthening the time of the visits to his house... then, if things are going well, moving from one house to the other won't be such a big deal. Also, if you change your mind about moving, nobody has to know that was your original plan... :)
2007-02-18 09:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by Amy S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u truly think it will be better at your dad's and it is not just because he has a new house or that your mom gets on your nerves. Then just sit them down and tell them u want to move in with your dad. But u will probably need a better reason then "Dad, I like your house better." and "mom, I don't like u blaming **** on me."
2007-02-18 09:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Who Me? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's sweet of u to think of how ur parents feel or will feel
as for ur momma, u should sit her down and have a talk with her about how unhappy u are, that u feel you have too much responsibility with ur lil brother's, (she should hire a sitter and let u be a kid not a parent, i'm sure it's hard being single but tell her they're not UR kid's)
and i'm sure ur dad will be happy, just make sure ur leaving for the right reasons .. and not cuz u wanna rebel or want more freedom, cuz u'll only hurt ur self.
good luck hun
2007-02-18 09:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emawee, I think you should ask them both, separately, if you can go move in with your dad. Since your mom refuses to help you with your depression, it's not good for you to live there/
2007-02-18 10:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lori 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't do this without hurting Mom.. Only solution is to split your time One week Dad, Other Week Mom, etc.
2007-02-18 09:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better go to the court. They were the ones who made this decision. If you just go to your dad's you can be arrested as a runaway and him for kidnapping. Don't give me some kind of rude response like you did last time, Emawee, or I'll report it as abusive...
2007-02-19 01:53:28 · answer #8 · answered by Busta 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋