ok so everyone has the frineds that are WAY over protective. but my Bf is shy and my friends think he disnet care. He has asenperger(sp?). Every now and then i catch him staring @ me but then looks away. and since nothing happened over V-day my frineds think it is time to end it. I have thought about it but there is something holding me back....HELP!?!?!?!
2007-02-18 08:58:00 · 9 answers · asked by slow_dancing_in_the_rain 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like the guy enough, find out all about this "asenperger" and maybe it will help you to understand him better.
2007-02-18 09:07:55 · answer #1 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends do what you want after all there not the one in the relationship with the guy. You can't live your life of what your friends think you should do what ever would make you happy. Your friends should be happy for you if your happy no matter how you wanted it. Who cares they might be able to see you less etc....... I mean if your friends told you to run away and kept telling you to do it would you. Sorry to sound like a parent but some friends are forever some backstab others do other things some might be saying it cause one of them like him. Nothing happened for v - day that doesn't mean that he doens't care maybe he didn't have funds etc.... Do what you want your friends if they are true friends will stick behind you no matter what decision you make.
2007-02-18 09:02:53 · answer #2 · answered by ho0k4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Asperger's is a mild form of autism in which the person is impaired in two-sided social interaction and non-verbal communication. Your bf probably isn't sure of how to handle himself socially and comes across as shy. He needs support and understanding.
2007-02-18 09:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're life is out of your friend's control. Don't listen to them, talk to him. If you don't, your relationship may end...trust me on this one. Silence is the killer of most relationships...do you love him? Talk to him about EVERYTHING!! All your concerns and everythin you are worried about. Don't keep quiet any more...take it from a person who has had a lot of heartbreak...don't sit back and watch this die.
2007-02-18 09:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your relationship.. why don't you talk to him about it? asenperger? what is that?? does he have some kind of a social anxiety disorder or something? either way.. try to talk to him about it, before you break things off. Good luck!
2007-02-18 09:03:17 · answer #5 · answered by faerycatcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like him, try to get him to go on a few more dates with you. Don't listen to your friends unless you want to break his heart, or if you just don't like him anymore.
2007-02-18 09:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Joe S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way dont dump him just yet..Good luck w/ w/e you decide to do! ;)
2007-02-18 09:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you reall like this guy you should follow your heart and not what your friends tell you.
2007-02-18 09:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by thicksauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP DUMP DUMP....
2007-02-18 09:02:55 · answer #9 · answered by Vivek K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋