i met a guy a couple of nights ago in a club we ended up kissing and he asked me to go back to his hotel he really turned me on and i really wanted 2 but didn't i havent been with anyone in 18 months am i just scared or is it i can't move on from my past ? help really confused and don't want to let opportunities pass me by
2007-02-18 08:46:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It isn't an opportunity, you aren't scared, and you aren't stuck in the past. You've grown up and developed some self-respect. Celebrate. Then wait til you meet someone worth the bother of waiting for - it'll happen :)
2007-02-18 08:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse it is OK to have one night stands as long as that is what you want.
If you are faced with the decision of should i go with him or should i not and you have any doubt in your mind that this is not a good idea then don't do it.
There is no worse emotion than regret, so please do not do anything you don't want to do.
On the other hand if you want to go out and have fun and go home with someone you like then do it. As long as you are being safe and not hurting anyone then why not.
You have to give it some time and slowly let yourself let go of the past and live for the future.
Good luck babe xxx
2007-02-18 16:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by anastacia500 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i was in ur shoes last 2 years go belive me one night stands seem s great when u had some drinks but un the cold day of light it not and aslo u have rto becarful of catching somthing
i think u should wait until u have got over ur past give ur self some healing time and belive me u get back on track and feel better for it
aslo u do tn want to get aname for sleeping around or do u i say not
2007-02-18 16:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a couple of others have said do what you feel comfortable doing.
All I will say is to use protection - you can get them free from any family planning clinic (I get 18 a month!!)
Good luck - be happy
2007-02-18 16:56:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bristol_Gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one night stands are not advisable, and if you are ready to do IT on the first night then you really must be sure your partner is interested in YOU and not notching up his tally as a stud, y'know. Take your time and if you feel there is a future then you can decide to commit. If you are not at ease you wouldnt enjoy it anyway and neither would he.
2007-02-18 16:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not a virgin, but the next best thing is a woman who doesn't do it with everyone who turns her on. There is no such thing as safe sex if someone else is involved. Condoms are not totally effective against pregnancy and STDs. When you do one night stands with someone who does one night stands, you are in essence having sex with everyone your partner has ever had sex with..
2007-02-18 16:50:55 · answer #6 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Morally? No.
Health-wise? Not a good idea w/o insisting on latex protection.
If you've waited 18 months, you might as well wait until you get into a relationship and do it with someone you actually care about who cares about you.
2007-02-18 16:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by JD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been having a new one night stand for the last 15 years. Seems ok so far...
2007-02-18 16:50:00 · answer #8 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it had felt right you would have gone, he`s obviously not the one for you.
Different strokes and all that, what is right for one is not right for another.. YOU must judge for yourself! listen to your inner voice it never lies!!
Good luck and take your time to find someone to love
Tink x
2007-02-18 16:57:39 · answer #9 · answered by Tink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they are great but be careful and safe use protection and carry a gun don't set yourself up to be taken advantage of with that being said enjoy the dick
2007-02-18 16:56:54 · answer #10 · answered by Hot Babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋