Why a guy go to a random girl and talk to her? Because, she gives her eye contacts, right?
Every time I go to bars/clubs, I see these ladies making eye contacts with me. Obviously, I go towards them and talk with them. However, they decline giving me their number and leaves. Then why they make these eye contacts?
Why they are doing this? Are they just playing games?
2007-02-18 08:40:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This means that they are being slutty.
Stay away from them, very far away!
2007-02-18 08:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude...we make eye contact with you to see if you will make eye contact with us. It's not that we want your number. If a girl thinks a guy is cute, then she will look into his eyes, and if he looks back good, if not, whatever, there are more guys around. Play a game. Look at them. If they make eye contact with you, hold their eyes for a second, then look away. Then look back in a couple of secs. Then look away. If she is looking at you more than once, then you have her attention and go over. If not, forget about her and look at someone else.
Girls, or me anyway, are leery about giving out their number if they don't really like you. Figure out what she likes and talk about it...and a pointer for you that will get you a long way...compliment her shoes.
2007-02-18 16:46:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lola 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because after they meet you and talk to you they must realize what a hump you are, and the run for the hills, i would like to know how many of the numbers you have gotten are real numbers? why do you say your a lawyer, when you just have to read a few sentences of your letter and you know your no lawyer, you can't even create a proper sentence, so i bet you try and build yourself up to these girls and they see right through you, if your getting the eye contact you must be good looking, but you may be trying to hard to impress the girls and in doing so turning them off or you could just be a big *** hole!!
2007-02-18 16:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, your game probably sucks. She may think you are attractive, but when you approach her you can be a bit much. Ask her questions about herself. If you are alittle nervous, you could be giving a girl tooooo much information in a short time which could make us think you are alittle desperate. CHILL OUT and ask her about HER. maybe look her in the eye when you talk to her and do NOT give off the "player" image when chatting. Example: do not dis her for another girl when she is right in the middle of telling you something. Thats a HUGE turnoff. We'll just go find another, so take your time and relax...Compliment her on her hair or dress. We don't do it for nothing, ya know.
2007-02-18 16:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by RJsGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well yes in a way they may be trying to get a free drink...you cantell when a girl is really into you. Or next time do not be so anxious keep checking them out and if they keep checking you out the majoriy of the time then go speak. Or say I am going to give you my number and if you call you call if you don't then you don't.
2007-02-18 16:45:05 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're curious! You must be attractive physically but maybe a little clumsey in conversation. Besides, have you tried meeting women in not so obvious places? Women who go to bars view men who go to bars as men who are only after one thing. Think more about how you may be coming across.
2007-02-18 16:46:01 · answer #6 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're moving too fast. Just offer to buy them a couple of drinks - talk to them - and if they're interested they'll stay and talk and maybe meet you back there again another time. The first time is too soon to exchange phone numbers. You are a stranger to them.
2007-02-18 16:45:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I see it 2 ways.
1. you might be missreading the eye contact.
2. she likes you until she talks with you and something you say or do turns her off and she simply changes her mind because of it.
if you drink a lot at the club, you might come accross wrong when your talking to her. stay totally sober and see if anything changes.
2007-02-18 16:45:46 · answer #8 · answered by eyepopping hideous female troll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because someone makes eye conact with you, doesn't mean she's interested, she's just scoping out the place the same as you are. If she smiles at you, or holds your gaze for at least 3 seconds, then it's a good sign.
2007-02-18 16:50:21 · answer #9 · answered by lil1_mg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure but maybe its something you say. (not trying to be rude because I don't know you and I could be way off) Girls usually make eye contact to get a guy to come over and chat, which you do and that's great, but its not over at that, you have to have good conversation too. (no cheesy one liners)
2007-02-18 16:43:43 · answer #10 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be but if i gave a guy eye contact then it means that i like them and i wnt the them to come my way. your just in the wrong bars
2007-02-18 16:42:39 · answer #11 · answered by Steelers Chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋