I've not spoken to my close female friend for 3 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.
She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........
We MET ON FRIDAY at a friends party,we spoke a lot,but she still looked hurt+uncomfortable at times.
I apologised for hurting her i.e. wanting no contact - she snaped bck saying YOU NEVER HURT ME! GOOD/BAD RESPONSE??
I asked her if she'll join us on our group roadtrips - she said YES! - A POSITIVE SIGN OF FRIENDSHIP RESTARTING???
As she left I said that hopefully/possibly see you in a few months -she replied I'll see you at the roadtrip - we said bye and she gave me a tight hug - ANOTHER POSITIVE SIGN???
She needed a hug from my mate as it was too much for her to take in!
IS THE FRIENDSHIP REALLY LOST???Why she hurt???
2007-02-18 08:36:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if she says shes not hurt she isnt...dont think that u ment everything to her bc no offence u probaly didnt. the friendship isnt lost keep tring to make up for what happened.
2007-02-18 08:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems like she is being a good sport about it. U pretty told her that the only reason u wanted to be around her was to be her bf. Nobody wants to here that. I'm sure she wanted to know that u liked her regardless of the kind of relationship that u had. It's a good sign that she agreed to join u and that she hugged u. If u keep hanging with her and trying talking to her u may be able to help her to continue to get over it. What ever u do, Dont Think That Because She is Hanging with You That U Have a Chance at Being Her BF. Do that favor for both of u.
2007-02-18 16:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well having a frienship means getting through the good and the bad. And you showed her that you didn't feel the friendship was strong enough so of course she is going to feel hurt.
2007-02-18 16:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so may-b deep inside she still wants 2 b friends or she may still have feeling 4 u!!! she probably hurts b-caues u said not 2 contact u!!!!!
2007-02-18 16:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Poohbear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like one or both of you really has no clue what you feel. Who wanted who before?
2007-02-18 16:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she wants to get back together with you
2007-02-18 16:46:44 · answer #6 · answered by your friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sound that a tease or physco.just try to be friends but if she doesnt, move on. you dont need her hun.
2007-02-18 16:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋