I couldn't imagine a girl wanting to spend her spare time with me. How do i get that thought out of my head?
2007-02-18 08:34:29 · 12 answers · asked by Jason 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it's obvious that you're either shy, or you've seen things happen in life that make you think twice about talking to a girl. They're just people. What I did was while I was out somewhere(the mall, perhaps?), and make contact with every girl I could. The next few times, I said "Hi" to almost every girl there. A week or two later, I could engage them in conversation easily. Practice makes perfect.
2007-02-18 08:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Joe S. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,well what you need to do is just feel good about being you for starters and when it comes to girls hey you must be a nice guy and I bet your pretty cool, so just be yourself.You may get rejected ya sure but there are plenty of girls that I'm sure would find you very interesting. Did someone put that thought in your head for another thing? I recommend that you don't hold on to any put downs or anything negative from your past. Just know that your a great guy and try not to worry about what anyone else thinks of you. Just be yourself, things will turn out just fine.
Take care.
2007-02-18 16:44:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay.....First of all my brother use this to do this all the time until he got courge to ask a girl out. All you got to do is pick a girl you want to go out with. At hope go to the bathroom. Then, make sure the door is close. Pratice saying it in front of the mirror. or you can write a note instead. Either take the stupid write the note one or pratice in front of the mirror. The mirror one really works.
2007-02-18 16:39:05 · answer #3 · answered by XxXToxicPandaXxX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody has something to offer and so do you,hon...just ask a girl out and don`t take it too personally if some turn you down..not every girl likes every boy...you will find the one for you..just keep looking...maybe for a shy girl to start..so you can be a little more comfortable..and maybe start with a movie..cuz it`s darker and u don`t have to talk alot ...good luck
2007-02-18 17:07:16 · answer #4 · answered by heather h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your testes dropped yet? if so, go ask one. If you get rejected ask another. ever see a dork with a VERY pretty lady? I have many times. It happens because the dork had the nads to ask and the pretty lady was standing by herself because noone else dared...be daring..it WORKS
2007-02-18 16:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by ROD'R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is a lot easier said than done but girls feel the same way so go and ask her because you will feel a lot better and if she says no well then she is missing out on a great guy!!!
hope this helps :))
2007-02-18 16:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to work on yourself. You must have SOMETHING to offer. You cant be that brutal to be around. Think of something. Youre smart enough to use a computer
2007-02-18 17:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by dragon3652001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find whatever you dislike about yourself and fix it.
Ex: If you think you're fat, lose weight... If you think you smell, shower. Etc.
2007-02-18 16:37:57 · answer #8 · answered by TheBosnian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ask her out. It will definatley erase all those thoughts
2007-02-18 16:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Autri® 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you aska girl who you know likes you
to raise confidence
2007-02-18 16:37:34 · answer #10 · answered by dballer360 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋