I have this boyfriend,and none of my friends like him and he hasnt called me in like 2 weeks.But,I still have feelings for him,andI don't know why either.I'm 12 years old,and please don't say I am too young to even think about dating,but,I'm very mature for my age.(honest truth) and my friends keep tellin me that he flirts with other girls.I don't know why I still like him.Thx for all the answers! P.S I havent seen him flirt with other girls,but I wouldn't know because I'm not in his class.
2007-02-18 08:29:57 · 13 answers · asked by Jessica P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and what is your question again?
2007-02-18 08:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by xstreetplayax101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not going to say you are too young.
Ask yourself the following question.
Why don't my friends like my boyfriend?
Does he treat me the way I treat him?
Does he treat me better than I treat him?
Is he attentive to me, my needs, my situations in life?
Is he the best boyfriend?
Will he be the last?
You should really think about what you are doing it is call waiting for a dream to come true. Don't do that a lot of women have got themselves into situations by doing so.
Remember you deserve a best friend in a boyfriend.
He should be on your team exclusively
Best Wishes
2007-02-18 08:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by hawleysangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think (in this case) you should listen to your friends. It sounds like they really do have your best interest at heart and don't want you to get hurt. Did he use to call you on a regular basis? If he did and its been two weeks something is definitely going on. You could try talking to him about it and see where it goes from there, but listen to your friends too, I am sure he wouldn't come out and say "ya I have been flirting with other girls".
Good Luck.
2007-02-18 08:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My take on your feelings is that he's the one who is being aloof, which makes you wonder if you did something wrong, makes you wonder if he was "all that", etc etc. Bottom line, having some break up with you is difficult because there are so many unanswered questions. As long as those questions remain unanswered, many times you believe that you have feelings for that person.
You'll get over this guy . . . and find someone who is worthy of you.
By the way, you write very well. I imagine you get straight A's in English!!
2007-02-18 08:36:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry kid-doe I don't think anybody here can help you on this one except give you advice and we all know you wont receive that. A 12 year old girl shouldn't be too attached to a guy right now, have patience, wait till you can judge for yourself.
2007-02-18 08:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Auburn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes 12-16 hes going to flirt because of growing up. he might be relizing theres more than just you out there and he wants to explore. and if he dont call you in 2weeks call him...? and hes young hes not going to call every second...and you have feelings because you feel for him too fast witch in return made him move further away... so my advice is either confront him on everything or break it off your self.
2007-02-18 08:35:54 · answer #6 · answered by punkey_monkie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has not called you in two weeks sorry sweetie he is not your boyfriend anymore. Let him go and try not to nag him and try not to call him. the more you ignore the boy, then the more attention they pay to you. Crazy huh that is just how it works. Just give it sometime and give him some space he will come around.
2007-02-18 08:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care how "mature" you think you are, YOU ARE TOO YOUNG FOR A BOYFRIEND!
But in any case...i would trust your friends, they must not like him for a reason. They can see him in a different way that you may not be able to because you are blinded by your own feelings for him. I think it would be a good idea to move on.
2007-02-18 08:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by lil1_mg 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
the same thing happen to me when i was 17 yrs old.. but we went to different schools!!! and we didnt talk for a month! i didnt wanna break up w/ him but in the end... it just didnt work out... i believe there is someone out there for everyone... so maybe is isnt the one... try talkin to him if he doesnt talk to you drop him like its hot and move on... your young... trust me there will be alot of guys in and out of ur life so dont get hung on one that might be a jerk =)
2007-02-18 08:36:29 · answer #9 · answered by Chitownshottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel. He may not be as mature as you. If he isn't serious about the relationship then you should find someone who actually cares about you.
2007-02-18 08:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Saad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and ask him if he was busy or something those days... or ask him why he hasn't called in 2 weeks... Really to be honest... if i was in this situation i wouldnt worry about htis guy. their are more out there...
2007-02-18 08:40:35 · answer #11 · answered by spunky_luv_today 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋