i can't quit thinkin of him and everything i think of he is always there
2007-02-18 08:28:07 · 32 answers · asked by amanda d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
13 is about the age when you start getting attracted to the opposite sex. Is it ok?....sure why not? It's just part of growing up
2007-02-18 08:33:54 · answer #1 · answered by phillyvic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you can absolutely be in love at 13... the fact that is young love doesn't make it any less significant. Time will tell if it is the "love of your life" kind of love or just a "first love" experience but either way it's significant to you.
I met my husband when I was 13 and a freshman in high school, fell in love and have been happily married for 28 years!
2007-02-18 08:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel it? Yes.
Act on it? No.
At your age, and for a few years to come, you'll both go through so many changes in your bodies, minds, and hearts you'll be completely different people when you come out the other end. You may not even like the guy then. Or maybe you will. Best to wait and see, and just enjoy watching him from a distance for now.
2007-02-18 08:39:17 · answer #3 · answered by John's Secret Identity™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal..I know exactly how you feel..because right now i feel the same way about someone and im 13, and i hate all these people who are saying you cant be in love at 13, and maybe thats right for some teens but for some..like us who are constantly thinking about this person it is possible for you to be in love.
2007-02-18 08:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Janelle S. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is perfectly fine to be in love at 13!!!! my best friend sister was actually a yr old.. she was 14 and she fell in love w/ her bf... that sayin young love doesnt last... is so not true.. everyone thought they wouldnt last and my friends sister is now like 27 yrs old and married with the same guy!!! w/ 3 kids and she cant be more in love!!! yeah its hard and no it doesnt happen to everyone but its possible... so if u think u are just follow ur heart because ur heart is always gunna be true to you=)
2007-02-18 08:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by Chitownshottie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 13 if you come on too strong even if you think you are in love you will scare him away. Give it time. You have your whole life to fall in love. Concentrate on your studies, family and friends for right now. Real love will come when the time is really right. Right now you are in love with the idea of being in love.
2007-02-18 08:35:30 · answer #6 · answered by Mee-Maw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fool yourself into thinking its love. Love involves time and pain, and a lot of both.
Love doesn't have physical rules or anything, but until you've grown up, and experienced the bad part of life, you'll never really know what it feels like. Trust me, I thought I knew what love was for the longest time. But then I truly felt what it's like, and it's nothing like the movies. It's much more bittersweet than you would think.
But, I would encourage dating him. Just don't go into a relationship expecting something that might not be there. There's a saying my grandpa (God rest his soul) use to tell me when I was young, and it's really good advice. "Hope for the best, expect the worst". Pretty simple stuff, but when you really apply it to your day-to-day, you'll understand it's wisdom.
2007-02-18 08:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your feelings are valid, although what you are feeling is maybe what you call puppy love or a bad crush.
Love is really deep, it's more than that fuzzy feeling in your chest or those butterflies in the stomach when you see him/her.
Love is waaay deeper than that.
Lets see if you still the same about this guy when your 14 better yet next week.
2007-02-18 08:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Janet J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am 13, and yes i am in love and i would love to spend the rest fo my life with her, ive been in love wid her for nearly 2 year now and its ok to say ur in luv .....
but u reali have to be......
luv is such a strong word..
you need to feel for him for my gal ide take my own life and dont say your in love because weither hes fot or not i am 17 stone and i am 6ft and i am only 13 u need to care about there personality not weither thve got a 6 pack or owt coz the out side i just a shell to hide wht oes on the inside i hop this helps you
2007-02-18 08:41:56 · answer #9 · answered by ???? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're in love, ask yourself this question: Do you think you could spend the rest of your life with him?
At 13, it's entirely possible you are, but it's a bit unlikely.
2007-02-18 08:33:23 · answer #10 · answered by Rise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋