Hey i need help on a girl come on people best answer gets 5 stars?

Question

Well im 15 and theres this Girl I really like, Cos We Did this musiacal thing for 4 days and over that time i was getting on really well with her and now i see her once a week but i dont know wether i should ask her out as in be boyfriend/girlfriend because i know i really like her but i dont kno wether or not shed say yes or not but was talking to her on msn and she said she wasnt looking for a boyfriend but not to me we were talking about something totally different please give me some advice on what to do EMPHASIS ON HOW TO ASK HER?????? thx

Answer 1

If she isn't looking for a bf, then just keep being her friend and keep hanging out with her. The more you guys hang out, the better your chances are of getting her. Patience is a must here. Until then, also kick game to other girls.

Answer 2

Ok . We all know you guys need help with this asking thing. Trust me if you are cute and you are nice and you ask her in a cute way she'll say yes. Especially if she likes you back (which I'm sure she does) If there is a school dance coming up, I reccommend asking her to that. If there isnt, try this. around school ( Im assuming you go to school together, if not do this around wherever you see each other) set up little hershey kisses on her desks in all of her classes with words on them ( (1) *name* (2 I like (3) you(4) will (5) you be (6) my (7) girlfriend?and when she leaves her last class hand her the 7th one or do something similar with baloons..... however my faveorite is this : tell her to meet you at school or whatever 30 minutes after school or whatever lets out. In thos 30 minutes go to the closest ice cream place and get her faveorite ice cream in a cup. Ask the people for a little cup of chocolate chips. On the ice cream spell out Girlfriend? (or DANCE? ) in cholcote chips and give it to her (with flowers perferably) It'll work...trust me :) hope it all works out for you two and I hope I've helped :)

Answer 3

Your emphasis shouldn't be on how to ask her. Your emphasis should be on why you're asking her. Remember that you really started to like her when you were together a lot. Be together MORE. Once a week isn't a basis for a relationship. You really need to know about each other more. Once you do, you'll KNOW how to ask her out. It will just come naturally, and you won't be nervous about it. You'll KNOW what she'll say, and why she'll say it. Just relax, man. There's no time constraints.

Answer 4

Maybe the reason she didnt tell you that she wasnt looking for a boyfriend was because she wants to ask you out and wasnt quite sure that she knew how to do so! You can talk to her a lot more and become really good friends so that she can feel comfortable alone with you. And then some day your parents are gone, invite her over and ask her out and when she says yes then take her some place romantic. Good luck and God bless you!

Answer 5

Take her out to a nice place Let her pick or kinda figure it out what would be a nice outing for her. Then just tell her you was interested in seeing her. Be confident, and to the point but dont act like a jerk.
You'll never know unless you ask. Only thing she can say is yes or no.If she says no just be her friend. But, if she feeling you, still be her friend and just let the relationship blossom.
Remember be confident,honest, be a gentleman whether its yes or no.

Answer 6

ok im gonna take a wild guess and say u guys are friends right ok well see girls they might say they arent lookin for a bf when they really are just tryin to tell u somethin i do it all the time and most of the time if u ask a girl out she will say yes except when either she has a boyfriend or when she just thinks ur ugly or somethin so just be really flirty and that stuff around her and just kinda play around and ask her u dont have to be all serious just say kinda laughin "hey ya wanna go out with me" and if she says no just say oh i was jk or somethin ...p.s. just make sure shes in a good mood when ever u ask her out

Answer 7

Why don't you ask her to go to a movie with you! See how that goes, and then tell her that you like her as a friend and hope that she likes you the same way. If she is shy about the word "boyfriend" just don't use it. If you can maintain a relationship over a period of time, the boyfriend thing will work itself out.

Answer 8

That IM thing was a hint that she didn't want to go out with you. She just likes you as a friend. All you can do is stay her friend, and not hit on her or you'll just push her away. You can drop a hint every few months, but don;t read every little thing she says as a sign that she wants you. You'll just have to give her time and see where it goes. If you try to ask her out now, she'll just cut you off and start ignoring you altogether. been there, done that. sorry.

Answer 9

If you really like her let her know. Just know that girls/ women don't like BS. Don't beat around the bush or have her friend or your friend ask her how she feels, that's childish. Tell her " I find you to be one of the sweetest and most beautiful people i've ever known. Would you do me the honor of allowing me to take you out sometime?" Or if that's too corny for you you can just go with the old " if your free Saturday would you like to hang out" thing. Good Luck:)

Answer 10

well, its past valentines day so its going to be harder to be romantic. i think you should ask her out. who cares if you get rejected anyways? i mean if she says no she'll regret it once she finds out what a great guy you are. i say go for it.
how to ask her---
well i have a boyfriend right now and he called me and said like this: "hey megan, can i ask you for advice" i said shoot-he goes"well my cousin really likes this girl and he doesnt know what to do" so i said (knowing he was talking about me and him)maybe your cousin should ask her out, or give her a valentines.
(i got both!!!)

but iv always wanted a guy to come up to me and ask me. and then when i said yes, hed pull a flower from behind his back and give me a kiss on the cheek, then walk away.

if neither of those are good for you, ask a friend or someone to do it for you