What is wrong with this boy?

Question

Ok about 3 months ago i found out this boy likes me. he is 16 and a sophomore. i am 14 and a freshman. he is really funny and sweet. he wanted to ask me out and he wanted to go on dates and stuff. but i am not allowed to date and i told him so. he told me irs fine and my parents rules arent going to change his feelings for me. we are really shy around each other at school so we mostly only talked on im. he was so sweet. he said so many amazin things to me. and a few weeks ago i find out that he doesnt like me anymore. now he likes another girl in my grade and on valentines day he got her carnations and gave them to her twin sister to give to her. he aslo immed me on valentines day saying happy valentines day. There was a velentines dance 2 days ago. I didnt go but he went and so did that girl he likes. i heard that they slow danced and grinded. Apparently they danced a good ammount. Hearing that broke my heart. How could he do that to me? Also, i heard that that girl doesnt like him ba

it seemed like it liked me so much. how did he move on so guickly. i still like him so much. what should i do. how should i make him like me again? and also part of the reason i think he doesnt like me anymore is becuase my parents are so strict and we never can hang out or even talk on the phone. but i was telling my mom yesterday everything that happen and she felt so bad tht she said i could talk on the phone with him and maybe even hang out with him but now its too late. h was my first love and he broke my heart. he doesnt even realize. he doesnt evemn talk to me anymore and say hi or even act like he knows me. he treated me like that most beautiful girl in the owrld and acted lik e he loved me. and it wasnt to get in my pants cuz hes not like that and he knows im not like that either. what should i do?

also i heard tht that girl doesnt like him back

it just hurts so much.

why wont he at least talk to me? and that girl is so ugly and i am way prettier than her. sorry im not trying to sound cocky or anything but yea

and he told me started first liking me when he saw me in the hallway and i made eye contact with him and he thought i was really cute. and he always said sweet stuff like that. called me beautiful and said he never stopped thinking about me and stuff like that. now he acts like he doesnt even know me. how could he be like that? does he sound like ajerk?

Answer 1

a guy at that age will jump from crush to crush and will treat all of them like little princesses...trust me i'm 19 not too long gone from that age...just let it go and forget him. your too young to hurt like this

Answer 2

How can he do this to you? He's 16, has raging hormones, the option to either rub against a girl in person or IM some girl he's probably not going to have a chance with for at least two more years...sounds like the average heartless teen. You'll get over it, you're 14, you'll find better guys. He also must not be that shy if he's grinding some girl at a school dance. Maybe this was a blessing in disguise, think about that.

Answer 3

Listen, high school relationships like those you're talking about are void of meaning. At the point you're at, people date people because they "like" them. You must realize that there's a much deeper meaning to dating and relationships as a whole. Don't let this stupid drama get you down. The only thing that's wrong with him is that he's immature...and it's okay to be at the age he's at. He does need to grow up, but so do you. I'm not insulting you or anything, but just forget about high school relationships for now. They're meaningless and bring about nothing but bitterness and hurt. Focus on school...and maybe that certain someone will come around who means more to you than you can imagine.

Answer 4

Hey... I'm 14 too. (probably shouldn't be offering you advice, but...)

When people are our age, I don't think we actually know what love is, yet. We can totally be overwhelmingly lovesick one day, and then totally hate that person the next day. I'm not saying that we are totally devoid of romantic emotions at all, and people who say that bug the heck out of me. We're all changing a lot right now, and the hormones that control our bodies can change quickly. Also, this guy is a guy, and they change a lot too. So if I were you, I would just slow down and wait for the right guy to come. Broken hearts can be healed, I swear.

Answer 5

He's a kid, and so are you. You guys have lots of growing up to do, and guys are very fickle at any age, but especially when they're 16. Just block him from your IM and try to forget about him. Someone better will come along, or maybe he'll realize what he lost, and came back to you when this other girl that doesn't really like him is through teasing him.

Answer 6

its good you listened to your mom. she always knows best. she saved you from the shame that you would have faced if you dated him cuz even if you did go out with him, he would have dumped you anyway.

i dont think you were really in love. i think you were just flattered by all the amazing things he was telling you. hold your head up high because you are the victor. he is a loser and thank God you found out early in time.

and you are still very young and very vulnerable. protect yourself. accept compliments graciously but do not get too flattered. teenage boys send out a hundred compliments and waits for any teenage girl who would respond. don't get sucked up in this game. rather, show them you are confident of yourself and not wanting in compliments. better still...just concentrate first on your studies. at least with that....its an investment & with it you have a future to look forward to.

Answer 7

well if you can`t date then he has to move on

Answer 8

he's a boy! that's the answer!