it is wierd for a girl yo ask out a guy? this guy and i like eachother and im not sure when hes going to ask me out. should i just do i and get it over with?
2007-02-18 07:56:58 · 9 answers · asked by Jessica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should just see if would chill with you first, at like an arcade/sports activities place. If he does, then you will see how he likes you - as a friend or more.
If you wait, you will go nuts about it and won't concentrate on any other thing. Try this method, it always works.
2007-02-18 08:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by insidehomerun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for this guy, but myself, and many other men I know, all agree; we wish that women would ask *us* out. It takes a lot of motivation to ask someone out, and the problem guys have, is we aren't particularly picky. I mean, moreso than just physical appearance, guys tend to be a little more easy going, and can enjoy being with any girl, rather than looking for a perfect one.
I say go for it. It sounds to me like he doesn't have enough self esteem to ask you out. Trust me, nothing, and I repeat, *NOTHING* could raise a guy's self esteem more than a woman asking him out.
2007-02-18 16:14:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jared C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wierd, alot of girls have asked guy's out. I have asked a guy out and it's very impressive to them.
2007-02-18 16:04:04 · answer #3 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay to do so, but one thing you have to keep in mind:
Is he mature or open minded enough to be asked out by a girl, or as soon as you ask him, he goes running to his boys and talk about you like you're a looser.
You are taking a chance here. Think first.
2007-02-18 16:04:10 · answer #4 · answered by Lana817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've never been out with this guy, I would wait. You can't be sure if he's ever going to ask you out. Don't scare him away.
2007-02-18 16:02:31 · answer #5 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes go ahead and ask him out, I have had a few girls ask me out, and i find it very exciting when they ask me out, you feel like wow she likes me so much she asked me out, the world has changed and it not the 20's anymore and in today society I believe a women can ask a man out and not be considered an whore!!
2007-02-18 16:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Hard & Thick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know for sure that he likes you and you like him go for it. just because usually the guys ask the girls dont me anything.
2007-02-18 16:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM IF IT WAS ME I WOULD WAIT BUT IN YOUR CASE TAKE A CHANCE TELL HIM YOUR TIRED OF WAITING
2007-02-18 16:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there ain't nothing wrong with that...go for it
2007-02-18 16:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by Naib Link 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋