ok i was going out with this guy for 6 months and i broke up with him and he was heart broken.now it has been 4 months later and i want him back so so so bad!! and he says he doesnt want to get hurt again......what should i do????????
2007-02-18 07:50:18 · 18 answers · asked by andrian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just went through the same thing and all I can tell you is that you should have thought about all this before you dumped him. If it were me I'd laugh in your face, but if he's on the wire then you might be able to "promise" your way back into his life, but you're just going to leave him again some time down the road and he'll never trust you completely again so why bother with all the pain you're just going to cause?
2007-02-18 07:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't mess with people's hearts & lives.. it's incredibly unfair.. if you dumped him, there was a reason for that.. he's right to be wary.. What's to say you feel like you don't want to be with him again in a couple of months, then what?! You either hurt him so badly or you stick with a guy out of guilt.. neither is a good idea. Leave him alone & move on.. sorry if that's harsh..
2007-02-18 15:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by cheesy_ladee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only THINK you want him back because you may not have someone right now. Believe me you will get over him when you go out and find some one else. Let him go, there was a reason for the break up. Like they say, it's called a break up cause it was broke.
2007-02-18 15:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by pinaykezzes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over yourself. You obviously dumped him for a reason, and even though time blinds you of that reason, it'd soon come back if you had ever started dating him again. The answer to your question is there's nothing you can do. Odds are he's either found someone else to be interested in. I love how girls think they can change a guy. It's so cute.
2007-02-18 15:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Candle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
And make slow careful decisions about matters of the heart next time.
2007-02-18 15:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Wind Chime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, u need to think about why u broke up to begin with. There must have been a good reason.
2007-02-18 15:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new man and next time understand that the grass isn't always greener on the other side.
2007-02-18 15:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by King 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say that u should apologize for breaking up w/ him and explain why u did. have a long talk with him and tell him that you care about him and love him very much and that u aren't gonna hurt him again. i feel sorry for him.
2007-02-18 15:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Silent Rumours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have held onto him, he's right to not want to get back with you because you'll probably just dump him again.
2007-02-18 15:53:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you are very sorry for what you did to him and that you want to fix it. if you are sure that you really want to be with him then tell him. tell him that he should give both of you another shot. you made a mistake and now realize how much you want to be with him. live and learn.
2007-02-18 15:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by lai_dimples 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋