me and my ex have been divorced since 04, she left me for another woman and it's been hard trying to move on with out her. I love her so much and wish she would come back, she gets into fights with her lover every few months and comes running back to me for 2 or 3 months and then goes back to her. I am really starting to lose it and need to move on but i can't , i still feel that some how, somewhere, some way, God will fix it .Am i just dreaming, is it a hopeless cause, my friends say i am in denial and should move on, are they right?
2007-02-18 07:49:56 · 7 answers · asked by manuvgod1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Listen my ex did the same but it wasn't with same sex. He had many girlfriends when I did find out about it. I tried to get over him and tried to stop seeing him every time he wanted to see me. Finally I had to move away and not let him know where I was. When he did find me I told him it was over and not to come to the state I was in to stay away. Even though I still loved him I lived alone for almost 9 years still being married to him and never speaking to him for 7 years. I finally met a wonderful man and he paid for the divorce and we were married. Don't waste your time on her. She is being what I call a Player. She knows you are a man of god and is using that against you. From my past situation I know God wouldn't want it for me.
2007-02-18 08:30:12 · answer #1 · answered by Granny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR FRIENDS ARE RIGHT, YOU SHOULD REALLY MOVE ON. YOU ARE ONLY HURTING YOURSELF AND YOUR EX IS ONLY USING YOU. SHE IS NOT CARING ANY ABOUT YOU AND SA LONG AS U LET HER SHE IS GOING TO DO THIS TO YOU. I BET THERE IS SOME ONE JUST DOING WHATEVER TO GET YOUR ATTENTION AND YOU CAN'T SEE IT BECAUSE YOU ARE ONLY KEEPING THE DOOR OPEN FOR SOMETHING YOU WILL NEVER HAVE. YOUR EX IS NOT WORTH THE TIME YOU PUT IN WITH HER. I KNOW EVERY TIME SHE GETS INTO IT WITH HER OTHER HALF SHE TELLS HER I'M GOING TO TIM, HE WILL ALWAYS TAKE ME BACK. STOP!! THE MADNESS NOW WHEN SHE COMES TO YOU NEXT TIME TELL HER YOU ARE SORRY BUT YOU MADE YOUR CHOICE, PLEASE DON'T RUN TO ME WHEN YOU AND YOUR CHOICE GET INTO IT. TELL HER YOU ARE MOVING ON WITH YOUR LIFE AND SHE SHOULD DO THE SAME. AND DON;T YOU GET INVOLVE WITH ANY ONE UNTIL YOU ARE OVER HER. THE ONLY WAY SHE WILL EVER WANT YOU BACK IS IF SHE FEELS SHE WILL LOOSE YOU TO SOMEONE ELSE. THE MINUTE YOU GET A NEW GF SHE IS GOING TO TRY TO COME BACK IN YOUR LIFE. GET A FRIEND GIRL TO WORK WITH YOU SHE WILL COME BACK BUT SHE WON'T STAY, BUT SHE WILL COME BACK. SHE IS NASTY NOW AND SHE WILL ALWAYS LIKE WOMEN. I SAY SHE IS NASTY BECAUSE SHE IS DOING YOU AND A WOMAN. IF IT IS A MAN LET IT BE, IF IT IS A WOMAN THAN LET IT BE, NOT BOTH, THAT IS NASTY. GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-18 16:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's emotionally abusive & since you are divorced, I'd probably stay single if I were you since she's a player, plus you can't compete with her once in a while wanting the opposite type of sex that you are. Heart goes out to you.
2007-02-18 15:58:34 · answer #3 · answered by Nocine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is using you as a shoulder to cry on. She made this mess and now she needs to deal with it. Do not let her come back. Find somebody worthy of your love. She will cheat on you again if you take her back.
2007-02-18 16:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is not a made-up question, why would you want somebody back after they have treated you like she did. Cut all ties - do not allow her to take advantage of you again. Move on.
2007-02-18 15:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by ra63 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have left you in the first place.
2007-02-18 15:54:45 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run forest run! she's just using you.
2007-02-18 16:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋