a question about sex.?

Question

ok. my hubby and i have an open marriage. i'm 26 and he's 47. i met a man on a site that deals w/ that. but i had a baby and am healing. the last time me and Mr. X were together he didn't where a rubber. I know he didn't have any diseases then. today i checked on the site to see if he's contcted any other women. so i sent him an e-mail letting him know that i knew. now the rubber goes on if he wants to be w/ me again. i said i don't want aids if he's sleeping w/ any new women. i don't care that he does; i just am picky about that, i know he didn't have anything than but am i in the wrong for telling him that, or am i in the right where self preservation is concerend?

Answer 1

I think you shouldn't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. If you need him to wear a condom, then that's that. End of story. You are completely in the right.

Answer 2

I guess in a sense you are right for wanting that, but why did you let him get by unprotected in the first place? Being a 26 year old woman, you should know better! He probably feels like you aren't very serious about this relationship. If he wants you, he'll wear a rubber.

Answer 3

I think if your going to have an open relationship you might as well be single. So what if you use something 1 day & not the next. If your having sex with your husband unpretected you could catch something from him. Jeez...... are there really people out there that still do that? Hey, that's my next question!!!

Answer 4

There is no problem or no shame in self preservation. It's a good standard to have.....if people don't like it, then they don't get to have you. Best of luck to you.

Answer 5

ill say you better go back to your hubby and try to mend your marriage.you need to settle down and act like a married woman.