Okay I know this guy. He's very sweet and nice and funny and always complimenting. The problem is he's like this (flirtatious) with every single girl he knows. I thought a liked him a bit even though I told myself not to. I confided in him and he didn't really have much of a reaction, he just sorta took it in a kind way. But then at the movies with a group he was ALL OVER ME, head on my shoulder, hugging me, like the whole time he was touching me and being so...I dunno, touchy and grabby and boyfriend-y, in words as well as actions. Now he's gone ( he was here for the summer) and we hardly ever talk. He's never made an effort to communicate. I think he's just messing with me but how do I act with him now?
2007-02-18 07:32:01 · 22 answers · asked by KM 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really have feelings for him any more but that may have been because we haven't talked much. I think those feelings faded before he left though...
Also, he's always getting all emotional and being like " You have changed who I am today. You are amazing. If I die from missing you, you can have my heart. I love you"
Pisses me off some!
2007-02-18 07:35:21 · update #1
Not groping exactly. Nothing in a bad, uncomfortable, or sexual way. But yeah I understand. I was just thinking about it...
He seemed sweet though.
2007-02-18 07:39:06 · update #2
The thing is, he doesn't seem player-ish at all. He's never like that with other girls (just the talk) and he wasn't doing that with anybody else in our little group (mostly girls). He's had like 2 girlfriends in his life...
I'm not sure something doesn't make sense to me.
2007-02-18 07:51:00 · update #3
If you don't have an interest in him as boyfriend etc, then I wouldn't worry about what to do with him now. If he likes, or loves you he will show it my some sort of communication in one way or another...
2007-02-18 07:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's gone and doesnt get in touch with you then move on. He's obviously just a flirtatious kind of guy. You fell for him because he showed you attention and knew how to make you feel good, but he doesnt want to take it any further. It seems he was just messing around with you coz he liked the attention you gave him (also because he knew how you felt about him, i.e. this boosted his ego!) Move on from this guy, he seems like a free spirit and he's not even around anymore...and obviously doesnt plan keeping in contact! Hope this helps, it will take time but you'll soon forget about him when someone else comes along! :-)
2007-02-18 15:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by glamtastic86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said yourself that he is all flirtatious with all single girls.
You were just caught in a bad position.
How do you act around him? Just do whatever feels right. I know that's a non-answer, but the truth is that only you can know. Your actions have to be based entirely on your feelings. Your friends would probably be a better source of advice for this than the Yahoo Answers community: they know you better and are more likely to be able to empathize with you.
2007-02-18 15:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I die from missing you, you can have my heart. I love you"
WOW thats smooth..lol...think he wanted to score..... some girls would go for that hook line and sinker... when I was younger guys would say anything to get what they want... we girls need to get our heads out of the clouds because no guys talk like that unless they wanted something from a girl... where is he now.... yep gone... and if u of let him score.... he would still be gone.. be glad u didnt go there... if u ever see him again.. just be yourself... never trust a summer fling... it will never last...
2007-02-18 16:07:01 · answer #4 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is a player, i'm a guy too and this is how i acted when i was younger. the point is to not trust your heart just use you brain. if you see him all over others girls and if he only acts boyfriendly around groups, this probely means he's only in it for the physical aspect and not the emotional part. i would move on and find a guy who acts the same when he is with your or around groups. just act like he doesn't "effect" you and don't let him get all luvy duvy.
2007-02-18 15:41:47 · answer #5 · answered by David V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hang around guys like those. They can become more than just touchy. From being all flirty, they can become violent and noncontrollable. So be careful and fight back if it makes you feel too uncomfortable.
2007-02-18 15:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if he's hot he's still perverted. i say you go out w/ someone who has respect for you and isn't all ''touchy and grabby'' if your not even dating. let this dude no that ur a woman that needs respect and love and affection but not from someone whos perverted. (in a nice way because he sounds nice and u don't want to break his heart...)
2007-02-18 15:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by Silent Rumours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So that night at the movies, he was feeling you up, groping you and getting his hands on you. Now he's gone and he's not interested. He never was. Ignore him.
2007-02-18 15:36:35 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's in his nature to be flirtatious. It wasn't any different with you, he just figured since you liked him he could get some. Stay away from this guy.
2007-02-26 15:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by shayshay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk to him unless he talks to you, he doesn't really seem worth it. Sometimes guy just feel a little flirty and he might have been trying to get a little action, i don't know my advice is just to forget about him
2007-02-18 15:41:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋