Ok I love this guy. But I dumpped him last year, in 8th grade. I love him so much. I told him I loved him then my friend went up to him and broke up with him for me. I didn't really want to breake up with him, but I did. I love this guy so much it kills me to see another girl with him. I told him I was sorry for what I did and that I really did love him. But he wont believe me. Now he wont even talk to me. I ask him if he's still my friend and he says yes but we never talk. And I just dont know what to do cause I love him so so much! Please help me and give me advice to what I should do. Thanks.
2007-02-18 07:20:33 · 9 answers · asked by Jess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have known him for 10 years. I started to like him in 3rd grade. We first went out in 4th. I really do love him. I know what love is, it is a great feeling. I get butterflys in my stomach when ever he's around.
2007-02-18 07:29:44 · update #1
Worry about school until you're mature enough to handle relationships, that will be in about 5 - 8 years..
2007-02-18 07:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Big Brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough question... The best thing I can say is to let him know about the mistake you've made and how greatly you regret it. Go more into depth about it. Don't talk to him about it because he will most likely feel uncomfortable. Write him a letter. Say whatever is on your mind- Don't be afraid to write how truely sadden you are by this event. By writing a letter you know he will read it and when nobody else is around. People influence others greatly. If he really loves you he will feel a deep sadness from this and will start talking to you again weather it's as friends a in a relationship. The main point is to get back talking to each other. Then let the pieces fall into place from there.
2007-02-18 15:31:52 · answer #2 · answered by champion0471 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just a kid and I don't take you seriously. As an older person, I know for a fact that you will find someone else that will replace your love for him. This is part of your childhood. Take this time to date other people. This will help you later in life when your indeed looking for your true LOVE.
Someone will eventually tell you that you dont know what true love is. This might not be true, but your not ready to really feel true love.
See other poeple. Date someone from the next grade up.
2007-02-18 15:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, you're in 9th grade. You do not understand what love is. I know you feel like you do. It's infatuation. You need to just move on. Look for someone else. If you cant get over a bf from 8th grade, you'll be pining for him your whole life. Get to know other people. And trust me, the girl he's seeing now is a hootchie. I know, ive met her.
2007-02-18 15:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by kissamoose217 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and just talk don't ask him out just b friends then eventually the other girl will dump him then he will be wrapped around your finger in no time
2007-02-18 15:25:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just grab a moment and say we need to talk just for a little bit and say how you feel and apolpgize about what you did to him and say that your feelings never really changed and you still want him back...i hope everything goes well!
2007-02-18 15:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You told him you loved him and then left! Of course he doesn't believe you, who DOES that? I think you lost your chance missy. Next time when you tell someone you love them, act like you mean it!
2007-02-18 15:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Caramella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone let it go, if he comes back thats how you know he is there for you and he is still there!
2007-02-18 15:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him so much why don't you marry him
2007-02-18 15:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋