i split with ex 5 weeks ago, i like her 2 bits and will do anyhing to see her happy. i knew how my ex got treated by her previous bfs so i treated her like a princess got her watches, flowers perfumes etc spoilling her. she says she likes me, fancies me and has got feelings for me... but at the moment can only give me friendship. i want her soo much cos i like her i try to break all contact with her and she gets upset and i do and we dont end up doing it. we was supposed to meet on valentines and i cancelled so she rearranged the day after and we went to the cinema and i usally grab her hand and tiggle her leg but this time i never so instead she got my hand and tiggled my leg and placed my hand on her leg and i kept on moving it and she got upset. She even came in for a kiss for the first time ever i just kissed her lip and moved away. she now txts me and rings me first all tym as i used to txt her and ring her all the time do you think i can get her back? would she come back help
2007-02-18 07:19:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think so!
2007-02-18 07:43:25 · answer #1 · answered by Stu pid 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi !!!
I'm sorry, but I think that you shouldn't get back with her again!
She do NOT love you, she is just feeling guilty, and probably misses all the attention you used to give her.
The way she is acting now, is just for the time being, because when someone feels rejected that is a normal reaction, to get the attention back!!!
Please don't do that to yourself, that is if you do NOT want to be hurt even more. And usually the second time is hurts worst!!!
Leave her and don't even try to see er as a friend, becausde she will savotage, your feelings for her every time she has the chence. And if you finally know someone worth your attention and love, she will try to by all means to interfere, probably NOT even noticing!!
You see, since she knows that you love her, she will use that against you to favor her, but that doesn't mean, she loves you!!!
Trust me, you are going to noticed that the more you ignore her, the more she will try to get your attention. NOW, THE BALL IS IN YOUR YARD!!!! Now she will feel like you did, when you will call her all the time, or text mess. and she kind of feel annoyed by it!!!
Move on!!! Probably you are letting happiness pass you by,
trying to get the unworthy!!! Learn fast, and from now on please,
try NOT to shower any girlfriend with gifts, and attention. This should be a two way street. If is NOT then that should be a red flag for you!!!
Who ever likes you, will like you for who & how you are, shouldn't be for what they can get out from you and your kindess.
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
A.Z.
2007-02-18 15:39:29 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this girl knows if she clicks your going to go running and she knows that she can finish with you when ever she wants and youll still be on a string. your problem seems to be lonliness. you dont need her because you only staed u like her, you didnt say you love her. maybe, you dont like being alone and you cling to her because of this but yet u cant touch and communicate the same because u know she isnt the one. look deep inside yourself and really think what you want out this relationship and could it really get there. dont live on fake hopes or promises when there are plenty more women out there that need some loving. good luckxx
2007-02-18 15:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by lipz20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it seems that she is making all the advances on you, whilst when you wre together it was the other way round. If she didn't want you back then she wouldn't have gone to the pictures with you, and she wouldn't have tried to kiss you. I think tatmaybe you should go out a few times with her, and make sure it is definitely what you both ant. But from what you say, I think that she prably oes want yu back!!!
2007-02-18 15:24:20 · answer #4 · answered by :) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want her back why are you acting this way? that is not the way to act you proabaly really hurt het you should call her and tell her how much she means to you and that you love her and was sorry for acting the way you did becasue shes probably really confused right now!!
2007-02-18 15:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds keen.... Just make sure that she is getting her life more sorted so you don't end up in the same position in another few months.
2007-02-18 16:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by ATP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay close, but nit to close. Give her a bit of space and time, and by the sound of it, bingo.... Good Luck...
2007-02-18 15:24:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what you did if it isnt to bad then do something so great that shows you love her you can get her back if its not to late
2007-02-18 15:24:19 · answer #8 · answered by lil breonna_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you. You don't want her back, it will just end in heartache.
2007-02-18 15:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by CHBN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i see this question on here again I'm going to hunt you down and make you eat your computer.
GET OVER IT YOU SAD TOSSER
2007-02-18 15:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋