ok im the midle child and i have 2 older sisters and they rnt that much older thnen me.
1 of them chose her bf over us and shes only 16, now she left with him and about 2-3 wks after she left she called my moms cell and we all talked 2 her and when it was my turn i told her mycell and after i was done talking to her my mom told me that my sis took all kinds pic of herself and her guy while they were doing it and her bf is 19
but on the other hand my other older sis left with her man out of town though and im not mad @ her cuz she is 20 living on her own.
but my real ? is should i keep talking 2 my sis or just leave her like she left us???????????????/
2007-02-18 07:18:31 · 9 answers · asked by minired_7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
i for got 2tell u that this isnt the only time she ran away this is about the 12th time she ran away!!!!!!!!
what would u do now??????????/
2007-02-18 07:44:36 · update #1
You're very confused, hun. Your sis did not choose her bf over your family. She just made an impetuous decision and ran away because she loves, or thinks she loves him. This doesn't mean that she doesn't love and care about you and the rest of her family. Many girls go through this, and so you shouldn't cut her off just because she let her heart get the best of her. Yes, keep in touch with her. Years from now this won't be anything but a boring memory.
2007-02-18 07:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your family is the most important thing you have, no matter how messed up. If they're not walking all over you or making you feel bad about youself then I think it's always best to stay in contact.It may be really hard now but you probably won't regret it in the future.Do not return evil for evil. Take care :)
2007-02-18 07:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Devon M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when these things happen...bad things usually follow not to put harm on ur family but she usually ends up breakin up with her bf and comes back running to u guys ive heard alot of these similar stories around but what u need to do now is keep talkin to her and she should turn around if you really show her the love and really talk to her
2007-02-18 18:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep reaching out to her. Your sister doesn't realize the situation she's in right now, and when it falls apart, she's going to need all the family support she can get. Blood is thicker than water. Many blessings.
2007-02-18 07:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, it sounds like your sister is just trying to sort out her future and her world. When we dont know what we want or need we can tend to run from our lives. I wouldnt try contacting her unless she contacts you first. Let her sort things out and eventually she'll come around. Leaving was her descision to make, and you cant hold that against her. She'll figure it out, dont worry. :)
2007-02-18 07:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to her, she will need you someday when her older boyfriend breaks her heart and she has nowhere else to turn. Keep praying for her.
You "forgot" about that information?? I really doubt it.....
2007-02-18 07:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep talking to her. If she didnt care about you she wouldnt be talking to you at all. Dont hold a grudge.
2007-02-18 07:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it really depends on her as an individual and your relationship. If its gonna be harmful to you or your relationship to s/o who stayed, maybe you should distance yourself. Good Luck!
2007-02-18 07:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would keep talking to her but if she does a mean thing to you or your family again i would leave her
2007-02-18 07:22:21 · answer #9 · answered by Kels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋