Please, it is getting out of hand. During the class, I fantasize about having sex with some girls. I started masturbation since age 15. Any ideas to stop me from masturbating? I do not have much females friends nor have a girlfriend. I am not gay. I like girls. Most of my friends are having sex andeach one of my friend has a serious girlfriend. I am starting to want sex, instead of masturbation, but I still don't know how to make good friends yet. Any tips on getting good friends? I want to get a serious girlfriend also. Any tips on that?
2007-02-18 07:17:02 · 14 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Masturbating is ok if you do it maximum 5 times a week, it is quite normal, dont worry! Even girls masturbate, it is perfectly fine. I think that what happens is that you want to know more about girls and sex, which by the way, is a great experience if you do it with protection. My best advice for you is to relax about this, ask your friends to tell their girlfriends to bring girls when you go out together, and when that happens, talk to the girls as you would do with a guy, don't be nervous cuz we smell that! Just be yourself, we do like that! Many girls like romantic guys, so maybe if you try to be romantic with a girl you like, you can get to something more. Most important, remember girls are not only for sex, so before going to that point, you need to know better the girl, love her and then iif things go ok, sex.
2007-02-18 07:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you may want to seek medical help, especially if you get turned on watching yourself in a mirror, or fantasize about family members or pets, or even when Bugs Bunny got dressed up as a girl, you know things like that.
But seriously, Masturbating can actually damage a sexual relationship with your partner or future partner, you can get used to it and nothing anyone will do will make "it feel better"
Go talk to your family doctor, tell him/her about it. This is going to be the most difficult talk that you will ever have but it MUST be done.
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2007-02-18 07:27:12 · answer #2 · answered by kevferg64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, the first line of this question is well-worded, heh.
You know masterbation is completely normal and also can be healthy, in fact, I believe it helps prevent prostate cancer. As for the friends and girlfriend relationships, confidence is the key. Having confidence and being outgoing can bring you a long way. I know it's much easier said than done, but you can start off slow and then eventually become more comfortable around people. So start being social because that's the best practice for becoming comfortable around people.
To put it simply, keep flogging the dolphin, and get yourself out there in the social pipeline.
2007-02-18 07:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by pip668 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in this same position, and i haven't masturbated sense june. ( 7 months ). I assume your religious because if you weren't you probably wouldn't want to stop. What really helped me was reading the Bible every day, and remembering that God Chose me to be one of his followers. I didn't choose him, he chose me and thought you can fallow my word and be faith full. God chose each one of us specifically to be his deciples and spread his word. To be a deciple is to be an apprentice or a student, so we're all like Jesus Christs apprentice, He chose us and thinks we can do what he does ( not all the awesome super power stuff, but he live faithfully and spread his word ) Good luck man, I know its hard and seems impossible but its not. Also if nothing else works you can put tape on your penis. I heard this works but I never tried it. Oh and a word of hope, it gets easier the longer you go without doing it. They say it takes 23 days to break an addiction, just aim for that then just keep adding days untill eventually you wont care.
2016-05-24 03:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna take some time since your new at it. is there a girl you like? if so, try to make conversation with her and take it from there.. see where things go. your problem is that you know your buddies have a girl and they are having sex and now you feel left out and its making you anxious.. just chill find something to do to get your mind off of it. once, you find the right girl you'll be ok and i'm not saying just rush into f*cking her but go into the relationship knowing what to do as far as protection. you'll get a girl to have sex with.. be patient.
2007-02-18 07:23:39 · answer #5 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, you just have to start asking girls out. Don;t let yourself be one of those guys that get depressed when one girl turns you down. Everyone has different tastes do go ask 20 girls out and 3 or 4 are bound to give you their number.....this is how you start having more girlfriends.
2007-02-18 07:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. A girl will come along soon enough. Remember there are 2 types of people...those who masturbate and those who lie about it. Just relax, you'll get a girl.
2007-02-18 07:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on... Ya gotta do what ya gota do the rest will come in time. Just be yourself be true be honest and careing. Be compassionate. Just be real don't be a phoney. And don't rush things. Good Luck!!
2007-02-18 07:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and Im sure that youll find someone for you otherwise all I can say is go to a strip club or something
2007-02-18 07:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just got to start asking girls out don't worry about getting rejected cause it happens to all of us before
2007-02-18 07:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋