So why do have to beat around the bush and waste each other's time by going to dinner, movie, then go out again and again and then maybe have sex. Why can't we just be honest with each other and have sex right away? After all girls want it just as much as guys right?
2007-02-18 07:07:05 · 18 answers · asked by Believe me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude, you don't know what you are talking about. your living in your own perverted lil world. your making us look bad man. going on a date doesn't mean your going to get some p*ssy. it would be nice if something sexual happens but you can't look at it as the reason. you go on a date to have a good time to talk to the girl, get to know her. bro, the way your thinking i don't think you'll get laid unless you get lucky with a whore. what a loser LOL.. good luck with getting some p*ssy LMAO.
2007-02-18 07:13:42 · answer #1 · answered by Blake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a sport. It is not a be all and end all motivation for relationships between males and females. Sex is an activity that was intended for married people who are committed to each other to produce the next generation of human beings. Dating is supposed to be a way to get to know another person of the opposite sex socially and find out if you have any common interests, values and goals in life. Sex involves a degree of trust and committment between a man and a woman that will sustain a lifetime of working together to make life better for both of them and their children. It is necessary for both of them to share common intentions because of the fact that pregnancy may result unless artificial means are taken to prevent nature from taking it's course. It can also mean the sharing of facts about the possibility of an STD or AIDS. It always involves deep feelings of emotional attachment for the female because of the hormone called OCYTOCIN that helps in the birth process and in the bonding between a mother and her child. Girls bond through the activation of this hormone, through touch and through sexual intercourse, involving intimate touching.
Although sex is pleasurable for the female as well as for the male, it is somewhat of a curse on the female because it may cause her to become addicted to the touch or to sex with a male who does not care about her feelings, or the offspring he may be creating inside of her body. The reason for so many disfunctional families, single parents, unwanted pregnancies, abused children and divorces today is because there are too many people who believe that : "WHEN WE GO OUT ON A DATE WITH SOMEONE THE WHOLE PURPOSE IS TO HAVE SEX." That is the biggest falsehood that the enemy of mankind ever came up with.
2007-02-18 07:40:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong, at least partly. Some girls want real a relationship and eventually sex. Sounds like you are looking for sex only. If that is right and you are not looking for a future in your relationship, then you should probably be right up front with the girls. If they feel the same way, they will let you know.
2007-02-18 07:14:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO. The reason to go out on a date with someone is to get to know the person better and to allow them to get to know you better. Dating has been compared to the process of shopping for a car. You look at the different models then narrow the choices down to a smaller number by eliminating some due to person preferences. Then you test drive those still on your list to determine which suits you best. Dating is the test driving. This will allow you to get serious with someone who is more likely to create a relationship that will last.
2007-02-18 07:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you're really just referring to yourself and the type of girl you want. And no, the purpose of dating is not to have sex but to actually get to know a person, whereby he/she could be a potential partner or may be just a friend. It's not about sex.
2007-02-18 08:03:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know much about dating or relationships. What you're saying is you don't enjoy anything about the opposite sex except sex. Go find a prostitute. She doesn't give a you know what about you and certainly don't even have to know her name. I think a dog would have more feelings being around another dog than you have about being with someone. You're sad.
2007-02-18 07:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's different in every ones eyes. if you just want a piece of *** then be straight forward with him and tell him but if you want to get to know he to have a longer relationship i would wait because if you don't wait and you just have sex right away then he'll have nothing to look forward to and the relation ship probably wont last as long
2007-02-18 07:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by amburlee2001 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life isn't all about sex; just because you go on a date with someone doesn't mean you expect to have sex with them. How old are you? 13.....
2007-02-18 09:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by softballchick_42005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
uh no. the whole purpose of a date is to spend time with a person you like. its not just about sex.
2007-02-18 07:17:54 · answer #9 · answered by :D haha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A matter of time an 'Yeah being secure etc' Do you not like the meals or the movies?
2007-02-18 07:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by David H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋