that she felt weird hanging out. My girlfriend and I broke up a few weeks ago. I thought the relationship was going well, but she didnt feel the "spark." We were friends before we started dating, and we decided to stay friends after breaking up. We hung out a week ago and I felt perfectly fine. I acted normal and did not do or say anything that i normally wouldnt. Talking to her today she said that "And plus, it is weird when we chill, it's like theres weirdness all around.... well, it feels weird cuz i can sense how u don't feel so comfortable anymore. like suddenly we have nothing in common."
What is weird is that she broke up with ME, not vice versa... if anyone should feel weird its ME. She was the one who wanted to remain friends. What does she mean when she says this? Why does she feel weird? serious answers only please thanks.
2007-02-18 06:59:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She needs space. Be nice to her, friendly when you see her, but dont make plans to hang out. Give her time to figure out whatever it is thats making things seem weird.
2007-02-18 07:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by independent101 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I don't think she was honest when she told you she wanted to remain friends. It was just an empty gesture. She doesn't have that in her. She feels uncomfortable around you because of 2 possible reasons. One, she feels guilty about breaking up with you and hurting you. Two, she imagines that you're still in love with her, and imagining her naked while the 2 of you hang out. Personally, I think it's #2, because she doesn't seem considerate enough to feel guilty.
2007-02-18 15:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have a new b/f and feels weird around u. or since u were friends before dating, then dating, then breaking up, it could feel weird getting back into the friend stage.
i hope this helps sweetie.
2007-02-18 15:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by army girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
sounds like maybe she just doesn't want to hang out with you anymore, and she's trying not to be mean about it.
she also sounds very confused. if you can try to stay away for awhile and let her figure out what it is that she wants.
good luck
2007-02-18 15:06:31 · answer #4 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she feels wierd bcuz when u break up its kinda like loosing a part of u. and hanging out is like finding that part unreachable
2007-02-18 15:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
She likes but not in that way. May be she likes someone else.
2007-02-18 15:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by fun fun fun .... you know the rest 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋